Shakti on Fire Free Coaching 4 Parts Series

Shakti on Fire Sparks 4 Parts Series

The objective of this free coaching series is to give you a taster of how Ignite! Shakti Training (IST) will be like. You have a choice

  • To go straight into IST or
  • To start off first with this free coaching and continue your journey with IST.

Either way, just get started! 🙂

Hopefully after your training, you will also feel inspired to be a part of the 1 million Shaktis, 3 million Sparks vision.

It simply means taking the Shakti on Fire Empowerment Pledge to do three empowerment projects of your choice for family, community and humanity. 🙂


  1. This free coaching series consists of 4 action books related to the four sparks of Shakti on Fire training, which is
  • Authenticity
  • Intuition
  • Pl@y! and
  • Power

The accompanying podcast episodes guide you through the action books and the main concepts in it. And of course, if you want private coaching through the process, or to add other healing and therapeutic processes to it, such as Aroma Freedom Technique (AFT), that is available too.

Ultimately it is up to you how far, and how thorough you want to dive into your Shakti journey.

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I will be here cheering you on,

every step of the way. 🙂


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honouring the Shakti

that you truly are.

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Joylight 11: For My World is not Yours

Model | Joy Leng and Charlotte Lee  


In NLP, it’s called criterion equivalence. A criterion is a benchmark for judgment, demonstrating what is crucial to us.
For example, we will use abstract terms such as integrity, honesty, compassion to describe what is meant by a ‘good man.’
  • But what exactly does all these terms mean?
  • What is integrity to you?
  • Is it the same definition for your family or your colleagues?
  • Regardless of whether the answer is a yes or no, how do you know?
  • How do you qualify it?
To me this is a very heavy topic.
There are many models out there trying to explain the concept and the workings of belief.
In NLP, we try to find out exactly what a concept means to somebody and we try to reflect back his/her subjective interpretation of a it to him/her for better connection and communication.

How can I use this?

Find a partner to do the following exercise.

  • Ask him/her what does it mean to be ridiculous.
  • What are the behaviours you will relate to it? List a few.
  • How are you thinking of? What do you do/say? How other associated feelings do you when you feel ridiculous?
  • Now, ask him/her to act out all that has been described for you.
  • Your turn. Do the same steps that your partner just did.
  • Now take turns to act out what it meant to be ridiculous to the other person.
  • Reflect on the two play acting you had to do. The first to demonstrate your version of feeling ridiculous and then to demonstrate your partner’s version.
  • How was same/different? To what degree? How did you feel especially when you had to act out someone else’s version of feeling ridiculous?


I think this should be a very enlightening exercise although it might feel very uncomfortable.
What I like about this exercise is that it can help highlight how very different and unique we are.
And we should never take for granted that a closed one will/should understand what we say or how we feel.
At the same time, we should also remember that it is impossible for someone to feel exactly how you feel and to completely comprehend every aspect of what you are going through even if they try their hardest.
Because they are not you.
You are uniquely you.

Here’s to your soul elevation!

Thanks for reading​.​​




Check out my brand new book ‘From Zero to Shakti’
A woman’s search for rebirth and redemption.
Now available on Amazon Kindle!
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‘The author is very brave, disclosing her personal challenges and the solutions she created. I admire her unselfish sharing, and her courage in undertaking her personal quest.
She traveled a long distance to a special place, and even braved a fire walk–something difficult to imagine. She tells her story in an absorbing way. This book is charming.’

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*** How often do you say yes when you meant no? Or say no when you meant yes? Take the free Authentic U Quiz to find out.

P.S. Check out my 17mins podcast interview too at Love Is A Verb. 

Your Transformational Coach,

Joy Leng


‘Empowering heart-centered women since 2005’

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She is a compassionate person with a quick mind, and I found her coaching to be skillful and intuitive.

If you ever need coaching, I would recommend you see her: not only will she help sort you out, she will be your cheerleader every step of the way!”
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