First Stepper – Reflections that transform Life Lessons into Goals and Fulfillment

Happy new year to one and all!

2017 came and went with a gush of wind. It is crazy but hey we are already in the beginnings of January 2018. And the first full moon of the year has already been in sight. Wow.

  • So how do you plan to go about your year ahead?
  • Do you have a plan?
  • What are your goals?
  • What precious insights from 2017 are you bringing with you to ensure that no mistakes are repeated, and lessons translate into goals manifestation?

If you are as impatient as I am, then I would suspect you are in a hurry to jump right into action, and do the first random thing that comes to mind. Resist the temptation. I repeat.

RESIST THE TEMPTATION.

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I call this post/episode the 2018 Blockbuster Part 1 because this is the first of a two part series, where I will share how you can make 2018 a most spectacular blockbuster of a year for you, by setting it up right, from the start.

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To be honest with you, even though I did my Vision Board for 2017, and because of that I had a pretty good idea what I wanted for the year.

While I also create some powerful tools to help extend my vision board into daily life, there were still parts from my vision board that did not manifest.

One of the reasons was because I did not deliberately reflect on the lessons learnt from the previous year, and include that into my goals and plans for the new year.

This year,

I refuse to repeat mistakes
that can be avoided.

With a little patience.

That is why I am making

First Stepper,
Reflections that transform Life Lessons into Goals and Fulfillment

free for you.

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WHY?

Because my 2018 prayer for you is that you start your year not by seeking what’s outside of yourself. But that

you begin your journey
by going inwards.

By doing so, you will naturally gravitate authentically to what your heart is looking for.

Remember, the first step to what’s worthy is towards your heart. And

anything that takes you away from your heart robs you from true living.

Besides that being my prayer for you, how would pausing a moment to reflect help to supercharge your year?

1. Lessons from the past

Reflecting helps you to learn from the past, and cement the lessons from your experiences.

2. Avoid repeated mistakes.

There is a saying that says the first time you make a mistake, it is an accident. The second time you make the same mistake, it is on purpose. The third time you make that same mistake, it is no longer a mistake. It is a habit.

Mistake, intention or habit, you choose.

3. Gain insights

One precious gem about reflecting on the mistakes that we have made is that it gives us a deeper insight into something we have not noticed before. Or a different perspective on things that can become a game changer for us.

4. Pass it on

Reflecting allows us to share the lessons from our mistakes with others so that they don’t have to go the hard trodden road that we already did. Sharing is caring. Why reinvent the wheel?

5. Happiness in a can

Reflecting does not only apply to the negative episodes in our lives. It also extends to the happy experiences we have. Reflecting increases the joy we have gleaned from these experiences, and reminds us how to have more of it in our lives. It’s happiness in a can! 🙂

6. Sparks your creativity

Often times, when we reflect deeply on what has happened, the other possibilities that could have happened if things were done differently, you will suddenly have an intuitive hit! Creativity is heightened in your reflective state. Sparks can fly!

7. Know Thyself

Aristotle once said,

‘Knowing yourself is the
beginning of all wisdom.’

What better way than to reflect on your past feelings, thoughts and actions? 🙂

Reflection.

This is the Part 1 of your blockbuster magic tool. Using reflections from lessons learnt in 2017 to transform into 2018 goals and fulfillment.

Are you ready to activate your first blockbuster magic tool?

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First Stepper is a free program which is Step 1 of a 12 Steps Goal Setting Program called Let’s Step! I am giving it free, to encourage you to use the power of reflections, to create a more meaningful and laser focused 2018 for yourself.

Let’s Step! Goal Setting Program has three Focus Areas to it, and each area has four steps to it. Given that First Stepper is part of Focus Area 1, I will just briefly share about the goal of Focus Area 1 of Let’s Step!

The goal of Focus Area 1 is to guide you to a place of raised awareness and clarity through

  • Reflecting the realization and wisdom that the recent past has to offer,
  • Defining the desired areas for change and for excellence,
  • Establishing powerful reinforcement structures, to ensure the highest possibility for the fulfillment of the goals you declared.

So speaking of reinforcement structures, as step 1 of Let’s Step! Program, First Stepper is the first reinforcement structure set in place, using the power of reflection.

American philosopher and psychologist John Dewey says,

“We do not learn from experience…
we learn from REFLECTING on experience.”

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The positive effects on reflection was confirmed by a research done by the Harvard Business School indicating that

Dedicating time to reflect on your life and work regularly have an affect on performance.

Enters First Stepper, Reflections that transform Life Lessons into Goals and Fulfillment. 🙂

So before you dash off clueless into the the year, let’s take some time to reflect on how the last twelve months have been for you. The yeahs!, the eeeeks!, the should haves, the shouldn’t haves, and so on.

Let’s reflect and see what gems you can learn from it. By doing so, you can be sure that

when it’s time to set goals, you are doing it with crystal clarity.

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You can be confident that when you have reached your goal, it is truly what you wanted because you took the extra crucial step to reflect, before setting your goal for the year.

Here, I will take you briefly through some of the questions in First Stepper that you can reflect on, with some personal examples to help you along.

However, you are encouraged to take First Stepper properly, and put yourself in a quiet environment where you can write down your answers, and do a proper full-fledged reflection.

In the last 12 months, what have been your greatest pride in work, family & friends, and personal development?

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Personal development can be in the mental, physical and spiritual sense. It can also be however you are comfortable to define it. It’s your reflection piece for yourself! 🙂

As for me, one of my deepest satisfaction for 2017 was the unexpected creation of Shakti on Fire Podcast. It was a natural extension of my book, From Zero to Shakti.

It was borne out of a desire to expand the conversations in the book further, revolving around themes such as self compassion, forgiveness, courage and authenticity.

Imagine you are being featured on the cover page of TIME magazine, what would it say about you? How would it describe you?

Are you satisfied with that? If not, write down what you would have preferred instead.

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If I were featured in TIME magazine, I would like to be described as the trailblazer for Shaktis empowering the world. It best summarized my One Million Shaktis, Three Million Sparks dream.

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What closure or completion from the last 12 months would you want to focus on finishing up in the next 12 months in terms of work, family & friends, and personal development?

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What are the sacrifices you would be required to make, in order to make the completion mentioned in your previous answer?

What are the qualities you will need to cultivate in yourself in order to support the completion required?

E.g. Patience, Focus, Creativity.

For me, I will need to have endurance to stay the course, when things get tough. I need to cultivate a sense of initiative, taking the first step. In order to do that, I also need to manage my fear, that stops me from taking action.

I also need to have self awareness to manage my negative self talk and excuses, whenever it arises.

What is the worst thing that can happen if you do not complete what you set out to do?

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Imagine that you have achieved your goal(s), how would you feel? How does it mean to you? What are the implications?

What was most exciting/satisfying about the last 12 months?

  • What were you doing?
  • Who were you with?
  • Why was it exciting?
  • What would be ONE word you would use to describe how you feel about it?

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Going for my first bachata bootcamp in SILF was a huge accomplishment for me. Especially since I went into it thinking that it was a beginners bootcamp! I was petrified and utterly stressed out to be on stage performing in the front line in front of dancers. I was far from perfect but I did it. 🙂

I felt EXHILARATED!

If this is something that you would like to have more of, how would you want it to be better?

  • Or bring it to the next level?
  • What’s next?

What was most regrettable about the last 12 months?

  • What were you doing?
  • Who did it affect?
  • Why was it regrettable?
  • What would be ONE word you would use to describe how you feel about it?

If you were given a second chance, what are some of the things that you could have done differently in the last 12 months?

I would have made time to learn and experiment on how to be a better and more active listener. I would have researched on how I can make that happen, and actively practice and apply what I have learnt. I think it would have made great difference in my relationships with people.

What is the greatest learning lesson(s) you have gained from the last 12 months?

How would you translate that learning into your life? What practical steps will you take moving forward?

Looking at the last 12 months, when did you allow fear and doubts to hold you back from getting what you wanted?

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What would you have done differently?

What was non-inspiring/dreadful for you about the last 12 months?

How do you intend to change it for the next 12 months?

  • Remove it?
  • Adjust it?
  • Replace it?

In three words, describe the person that you were for the last 12 months.

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My three words are learner, achiever, artiste.

In three words, describe the person that you are going to be in the next 12 months.

My three words are learner, influencer, artiste.

What is the difference, if any? Why the difference?

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How are you going to materialize the difference?

If you have been seriously answering these questions meditatively and thoroughly, well done!

Congratulations, you are definitely on your way to transform precious life lessons learnt in 2017 into meaningful goals for 2018, that will led to immense satisfaction and fulfillment for you.

So take a deep breath, sleep over it too if you want to before coming back to review all that you have written.

From there, see what arises for you. New insights, goals and aspirations for the new year. Write it all down.

Listen to your heart.

Hold on to these precious notes for you will need them for the

next post/episode where I will reveal Blockbuster Part II.

Thank you for taking the time with me to reflect on your 2017 life lessons. I find the idea that I will not be repeating mistakes I made in 2017, because I made time to learn from it already very satisfying.

Sometimes the way to move forward is to move backwards. And

Sometimes the fastest way
is to move slow.

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Don’t forget who won in the end! The tortoise! 😉

Let’s make your 2018 a most spectacular blockbuster year ever!

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For those of you who have not been thorough in this exercise, don’t forget to get started properly on your First Stepper, Reflections that transform Life Lessons into Goals and Fulfillment.

It’s free.

Start 2018 with clarity and purpose.

Leaving you with this beautiful quote from Rumi.

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GRAB YOUR FIRST STEPPER HERE!

In the cycles of our lives, there will be some beginnings that seem bubbling with beautiful promises. There is a delicious air of anticipation.

While it is definitely well and good to be motivated, with the exciting pulse  of new possibilities, it is vital to remind ourselves that

nothing happens without

intention and commitment.

Oh, what a downer. But it isn’t. It means you get to play. Take out the blank canvas and dream.

  • What medium would you like to use?
  • What would you like to draw?
  • What kind of colour would you be using?

Possibilities are infinite.

The blank space is inviting you to

fill it up with what inspires you.

This is exactly how I view vision boards. They are such a powerful tool to employ in the beginning of the year, or in a new phase of your life. You engage your mind and your senses, to decide what are your goals for the way forward.

Investigate what inspires you, and is worth your time and effort. You prioritize them, and declare it on your vision board.

As I started working on mine,

I just got more and more energized.

There is so much power in putting down on paper what was till that point, merely drifting thoughts in my mind.

I observed the same response from my clients. As I guide them to imagine, and to claim what they want to be theirs,

their eyes sparkled.

It was so intoxicating for me to watch someone else weave their dreams into their vision board. Truly magical.

When it was all done, I heaved a sigh of relief and contentment. It felt like a huge brain dump. Except that what I was releasing, were very pleasing things that were close to my heart.

As I look intently at my vision board in its entirety, my heart started to sing. It was almost too much to bear, to gaze at all that I desire at one glance. I felt true soul magic at work.

I also felt the newfound determination

to see it to its completion.

One of my clients thanked me after our vision board magic session, and shared that it had helped her resolve a lingering dilemma for the last two weeks. She was considering a study bond from her company, which was a very crucial step for her. But she had reservations and doubt.

In the course of drawing out her intentions for her work onto her vision board, she suddenly realized that the answer from her heart was a yes.

All the fears and concerns that had kept her immobile all these time, melted away.

Such vision board magic!

The way I do my vision board is radically different from the usual vision boards out there. My version of vision board comes from years of trials and error.

I did not want to just create yet another vision board for the new year, without acknowledging the parts that didn’t work for me the year before. I also wanted to make sure that my vision board is a board that works, with visions manifested.

Hence, together with my own observations and feedback from my clients, Vision Board Magic (VBM) was born.

The potent secret ingredients in VBM adds an alchemical element to the vision board, that helps it to become more accessible in daily life. After all, you can’t go everywhere with your vision board.

But what’s the use of a vision board that does not weave its magic in your daily life, to manifest what’s on it?

Vision Board Magic – Magic Amplification.

Today, I will share two of these potent ingredients of Vision Board Magic. When these ingredients are thrown into the pot, it will change a pretty picture board on your wall, to a board that works and visions that manifest.

Before we move in that direction, I want to make it clear what vision board is and more importantly, what vision board is NOT. That will ensure that your vision board is created with conviction, and delusions-free.

  1. Vision board is NOT a magic pill.

    Just because you made time to create a most beautiful vision board, does not mean that it will now automatically manifest by iteself. Tough luck Shakti but you need to commit, and do the actual work to ground your goals into reality.

    Your vision board is the modest seed that you have embedded into the soil. It is not the blossoming plant. You actually need to water it, care for it, and give consistent time and attention for the beautiful flowers, that is waiting to bloom.

  2. Vision board is a magnifier.

    Your vision board not only activates your goals, and it is brought to the forefront of your conscious mind. It reveals to you where to focus your attention, and what to look out for in your daily life.

    In doing so, it magnifies your visions powerfully on the energetic level. A compound effect is generated towards your goals, your efforts and your intentions.

    The more you act on your vision board, the faster you snowball towards your desired outcomes. The law of synchronicity is also activated. You start to attract ‘coincidences’.

  3. Vision board is not for the chicken-hearted.

    The Cambridge dictionary defines vision as the ability to imagine how a country, society, industry, etc. could develop in the future and to plan for this.I repeat, and … to … plan … for … it. That is what you are doing with your vision board, something a chicken is unable to do.

    A chicken does not aspire to be an eagle, it doesn’t even spend much time looking up! It is busy pecking for food. Neither does it have the notion to admire the sunset or the sunrise.

    Vision boards are for people who have the guts to dream, to visualize a desired future for themselves. Who is willing to have the faith, even if they cannot see the path ahead, at the moment.

    In short, vision boards are meant for visionaries.

    Are you a visionary?

Alright, now that we have that clarity and reality-check, it is time to reveal two of my Vision Board Magic secrets to you.

Are you ready?

Vision Board Magic Secret Ingredients

1. A Vision Board Magic is a Being Board.

  • Have you ever created vision boards before?
  • Have you ever looked back at your board one year later, and wondered ‘why on earth was that goal on my board?
  • Have you ever achieved what was on your board, and then felt disappointed, because it did not satisfy you at all?

The antidote is to think of your vision board as a representation of your BE-ingness. It is not about what you want to do, what you want to have, etc.

It is about who you are BE-ing.

Which area of your BEing-ness are you focusing on this new year or this new phase of your life?

What was put on your board might be things that you thought would made you happy. But it didn’t. I thought long and hard about it after reviewing my own board.

Then, it struck me like a bolt of lightning. Because I was focusing on the wrong thing. I asked myself what kind of board would I like to make moving forward, that will not repeat this sense of dissatisfaction again.

I realized I was moving in the opposite direction. Instead of being so occupied with what I want to achieve, what I want to have,

I should be focused on WHO I want TO BE.

I wanted

to create vision boards that

satisfy my last breath with a smile.

I suspect that I do not really care what I own or achieved in that moment, in my last breath. I WILL care about how I have lived my life and used up all my energy to be the kind of person I want to be.

What better insurance for that

than your vision board?

Provided you are committed to your Vision Board of course.

That was a real game-changer for me. So now the heart of my vision board comes from who I want to be, and it branches out to what that means in terms of the activities I will engage in, the projects that I will take up, the possessions I want to work towards, the  commitments I will make, etc.

All of which, will express that kind of ‘last-breath satisfaction’ for me.

2. Know Your Why

“He who has a why to live for

can bear almost any how.”

― Friedrich Nietzsche

Another element that you will not find in other vision boards, is the why. We all know about the why, Simon Sinek got everyone into a frenzy with it.

And, rightly so.

If knowing your why is so crucial,

then why is your why

not on your vision board?

Vision Board Magic includes the all-important-why on your vision board. Again, this was added based on observing my own behavior. I noted that there were times when I felt a sense of dread looking at my vision board.

It reminded me of the amount of work I needed to put in to make things happen, and all the things I have not done yet. Why was I feeling dread?

Because I have forgotten about my why.

What is the simplest solution?

Include your Why in your Vision Board Magic! It’s your vision board so put it in any way that makes sense to you. Make sure that it is clearly visible.

The toe pads of geckos contain tiny hair-like structures called setae, which helps it to stick to surfaces so it does not fall.

The Why on your board is one of the several setae in Vision Board Magic, that helps your vision board sticks to your daily life. 

In your stressful or tiring moments, looking at the why on your board will energize and refocus your energy and attention. Split-second re-calibration.

Your purpose in life is to find your purpose and give your whole heart and soul to it”
― Gautama Buddha.

The Being-ness of a Vision Board Magic does exactly that. It helps you define your purpose, and to give your whole heart and soul to that purpose by translating it into the sub-branches in your vision board.

Thank you for reading.

GIMME MORE GOOD STUFF!

1. First Stepper on Shakti on Fire Podcast

If you want to listen to the podcast episode of this blog post, click here.

2. Using the 4 Elements to Actualize your goals and vision

Have a most fruitful heart-satisfying 2018 ahead! 🙂

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Joy Leng

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Aligning Intention and Emotions with Your Energetic Heart

  1. The Heart

1A. The Physical Heart

When you first manifest into physical being, you started off as a cell (sphere). You start by multiplying inwards, before expanding outwards. Then it becomes what is known as the Egg of Life as a Star Tetrahedron.

A Star Tetrahedron is 8 cells, which is considered the basis of the 8 major chakras in our body. As it keeps expanding, the heart becomes the first organ of your body, to appear in physical reality.

1B. The Heart’s Electromagnetic Field

Both the brain and the heart are electromagnetic generators. However, the electromagnetic field of the heart is way more powerful than that of the brain. The heart is 100 times electronically stronger and up to 5,000 magnetically stronger than the brain.

Serious heart-blowing stuff!

Together they make up the reality that we live in, electrical and magnetic = electromagnetic field.

The electromagnetic field of the heart not only has a profound effect around the human body, but also on its surroundings.

The heart’s signals have a
profound effect on the brain.

1C. HeartMath Institute (HMI)

The nonprofit HeartMath Institute is an organization with over 19 years of research on the physiology of stress, emotions and the connections between the heart and the brain. Their studies have revolutionized the way we can live.

The spaces between the heartbeat is called the Heart Rate Variability (HRV). Regardless of whether we are healthy or otherwise, our hearts beat irregularly.

By understanding the way our hearts are beating, we glean a better understanding on our adaptability to our environments.

If new input from the environment causes you tension, e.g. your partner picking a fight with you, it will show up in your heart rate as a volatile chaotic mess.

So what are the implications here?

  • Firstly, HRV shows your physiological resilience (Functional ability to cope with stress).
  • Secondly, it indicates your degree of behavioral flexibility (Behavioral adaptability to situations).

HeartMath Institute  (HMI) has found that one of the factors that affect our heart changing rhythm is …. our feelings and emotions! When our varied heart rate is plotted over time, the overall shape of the waveform is called the heart rhythm pattern.

The emotions that we are feeling directly impacts our heart rhythm pattern, which reveal to us how our body is functioning.

2. EMOTIONS

2A. Negative Emotions

Negative emotions such as anger, frustration causes the heart pattern to be chaotic and jagged. Physiologically speaking, it indicates that the heart is not harmonious with itself.

It’s like trying to run on the treadmill on an uphill terrain, with a sprained ankle. It is inefficient and unproductive. Not to mention, potentially harmful and dangerous for the body too.

Similarly, when negative emotions arises, it also causes our body to function in an inefficient and unproductive manner. It uses up all our internal resources, and causes rapid wear and tear to our system.

The problem escalates if you are experiencing these negative emotions frequently, or for an extended period of time.

2B. Positive Emotions

On the other hand, when we experience uplifting emotions, our heart rhythm pattern becomes highly ordered, smooth and harmonious. Our wave forms start to imitate that of a rainbow or uplifting music.

That’s when we are aligned with a more efficient body system. We also connect better with others, with Mother Nature, and with our environment. The interaction is harmonious and synchronistic.

3. Emotional Self-Regulation

Studies by HMI has shown that maintaining positive emotions shifts the entire body system. This phenomenon is known scientifically as psychophysiological coherence.

Woah what a big word! Let’s break it down.

  • Psycho = psychological meaning mental and emotions
  • Physiological = physical body
  • Coherence = ‘systematic connections’ = harmony
  • Therefore, psychophysiological coherence = Harmony between body, mind and emotions

The Heartmath quick coherence technique can be used to balance thoughts and emotions, you can achieve energy, mental clarity and feel better.

Otherwise, you can focus on any kind of breathworks, to generate psychophysiological coherence.

Why?

Because your breathing is intimately connected
with your heart.

3A. Breathwork

So if ever you find yourself in a place of mental or emotional chaos, work on

  1. Your breathing, and on
  2. Generating positive, loving emotions.

  • Focus on your heart as you do long and deep breathing.
  • Recall a loving moment from the past, or
  • think of your pet or loved ones, or
  • a beautiful place in Nature,
  • and generate feelings of love, gratitude and appreciation.

In the field of neurocardiology, scientists have discovered that the heart possesses its own intrinsic nervous system, a network of brain cells with over 40,000 neurons.

What does that mean?

It means that the heart has the ability to independently sense and process information. It can make decisions, and even learn and remember. It is an intelligence system in and of itself. In short,

YES! You can think with your heart!

4. Heart and Emotions

Studies have shown that the heart is the key component of the emotional system. The heart not only responds to emotions, but the signals it sends out dramatically affects the quality of the emotion experienced from moment to moment.

Our heart is vital in
accessing our intuition.

Contrary to popular beliefs, the real boss is our heart and not our brain. The brain receive orders from our heart, rather than our heart taking orders from our brain.

4A. Healing of Trapped Emotions

When your negative emotions run wild, you will lose the ability to think clearly, remember lessons, reason and make effective decisions.

That is why it is important not only to be mindful to not allow negative emotions to take control of the present moment, it is also crucial for us to process and release negative emotions from the past, that is still influencing our thoughts, beliefs and behaviors, hindering our goals and intentions.

There are plenty of ways that you can do that. You can do psychotherapy, meditation, journaling and energy healing, just to name a few.

For example, Aroma Freedom Technique (AFT) identifies the negative memories, thoughts and feelings from the past. These thoughts are processed and released through the use of essential oils in a 12 steps psychotherapy process.

Emotion Code does that by identifying and releasing the trapped emotions, by communicating with your subsconscious mind.

5. Intention

Intention is the seed of all dreams and desires. It is the driving force behind the fruition of our wants and needs.

The classic Vedic text known as the Upanishads declares,

“You are what your
deepest desire is.
As your desire is,
so is your intention.
As your intention is,
so is your will.
As your will is,
so is your deed.
As your deed is,
so is your destiny.”

An intention directs your consciousness, your will, your mind and your personal power into a specific direction.

By aligning with your heart, connecting with the feelings stirred by your desire, and committing to inspired actions, you nurture your intention, like a seed into the humble beginnings of a seedling, that can grow and flourish.

6. Aligning Intention and Emotions with Your Energetic Heart

So just for a moment, imagine this. By using breathwork, slow down your hectic mind, and connect with your heart.  Generate uplifting feelings and the expanding sensation of gratitude.

From that powerful place of peace and coherence, set an intention that you want to manifest into the world. Using the power of your energetic heart and your daily inspired actions,

What of your heart desires
would you be able to manifest?

Hope this post helps inspired you to set a heart aligned intention for the brand new year ahead.

FREE RESOURCES

  • Grab a heart guided meditation here.
  • If you want support in reflecting on your 2017 to prepare for a fabulous 2018 ahead, grab the free First Stepper, which is Step 1 of a 12 step goal setting program called Let’s Step!

Be courageous dear brave-hearts and be well.

Have a most blessed rest of 2017 and a fruitful heart-satisfying 2018 ahead! 🙂

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Joy Leng

 

 

 

 

 

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This coaching program fills me with so much excitement and joy, because it very much also signifies my own personal growth and healing process.

Bringing to you what has worked powerfully for me,

with the intention that it will do the same or more for you.

We all have stories in our head.

Stories about ourselves, the people around us and the world we live in. Using stories to make meaning, and to make sense of our lives is a very instinctive part of the human psyche.

In fact, that is how cultures have been created and preserved through the years. Myths, legends and even rumors, are stories that we make, stories that we share, that make US go round. It’s like casting magical spells.

The question is,

Are you concocting the right spell
for a joyful you?

Come to think of it, was it so long ago when our ancestors and even until today, the primitive societies or aboriginal cultures still continue sharing stories around the fire.

So, what stories do you have about yourself?

What stories have you been living on a daily basis as if they are real?

It is called the self-fulfilling prophecy. 🙂

  • What have your stories manifested in your life?

  • Are they stories of redemption? Or are they stories of contamination?

  • Do the stories you weave nurture and nourish you?

  • Do you feel joy and peace from the world you have built through your stories?

  • What stories from the past that has helped you ‘survive’ then, do you still carry on with you?

  • What stories from the past that was created by a hurt and lonely child do you still act out, because you do not know how else to respond?

Ever hear a scary story or watch a horror movie that kept you up through the night?

Ever heard an inspiring story and felt motivated to act on an overdue dream?

Then you would know that

the power of stories cannot be underestimated.

What more the stories you are telling YOURSELF?

Stories, like energy and ideas, are so intangible and yet so captivating. Once it hooks your attention, there is no turning back. You become fascinated and engrossed.

And yet, others might have no idea how that story or that idea is influencing you.

It’s potent invisible power.

  • What potent invisible power is steering the wheel of your life?

  • Do you have the awareness to discern?

  • Do you have the courage to find out?

  • How willing are you, to do the work, to claim back joy and peace in your life?

These stories that you are telling yourself defines so many aspects of you; how you behave, what you say, how you feel, how you motivate yourself, and even how you self-sabotage.

Whether you are conscious of it or not, you are living out these stories anyway. They are always there, determining your every move.

  • Are you living a life on autopilot, dictated by these invisible stories?

  • Are you living a life of awareness, conscious of the stories you have about yourself and the world, mindful to live out self-nurturing stories?

  • What is the central story you have about yourself?

Do you even know?

MY STORY

I spent thirty years living a story of
‘I am unworthy and unlovable.’

This was a story weaved by a child, who felt abandoned and unworthy. I continued into adulthood, living from that disempowering space.

I was driven to collecting as many certifications as I could. I was very competitive, and highly judgemental of myself, and the people around me.

Everything that I did or thought was based on the anxiety of having to prove my ‘worthiness’ to myself, and to prove that I am ‘lovable’ to the world.

I was an educated, attractive and deeply depressed young woman.

Deep down, I still felt
unworthy and unlovable.

Sounds familiar?

It took enough pain for me to decide to do ‘radical therapy’ on myself, and to commit to eliminating this story, and to anchor in a more self-nurturing story of

I am an authentic, intuitive,

powerful and playful Shakti.

That journey was ironically triggered by my desire to be an empowerment coach for women. In the preparation process, it occurred to me that

I was the first woman

I needed to help heal and coach.

That began a series of events, therapies, rituals, Warrior Goddess training, SheDance training, Aroma Freedom Technique (AFT) training, and many other inspired actions.

It was hard and heart work,

but it began my healing journey, my long pilgrimage back to myself.

Warrior Goddess Training with Heather Ash Amara in Sedona, USA.

It also blossomed into a beautiful autobiography book, From Zero to Shakti.

So here,

I invite you to take my hand
and do the same
for yourself.

Get connected with your heart, and start examining the stories that you are carrying with you. I am here with you, every step of the way, and I will be your cheerleader!

Story SMASH!er was lovingly crafted, based on my own experience, for this very intention, to start you on your way back home to yourself, through self-nurturing stories. 🙂

If you are willing to commit
and to do the work,
read on.

Book your free discovery call here.

Let’s begin.

This is what I will do with you. 🙂

MAIN MODALITIES

The main modalities that is used in the program are

  • Narrative Therapy,

  • Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT),

  • Aromatic Freedom Technique (AFT),

  • Mindfulness practice,

  • Life coaching techniques

  • Fun, laughter and humor! 😉

SUPPORTING RESOURCES

Other supporting tools that we will also be using (this is not an exhaustive list) includes teachings from

  • Warrior Goddess Training (Heather Ash Amara)

  • Choice Theory Reality Therapy (William Glasser)

  • The Work (Byron Katie)

  • Nonviolence Communication (Marshall Rosenberg)

  • Neuro Linguistic Programming

  • SheDance (Areeradh K Tri-Siddha)

  • DiSC Psychometric Profiling

DURATION

  • The program is a 6 MONTHS commitment to give us enough time to do a thorough SMASH and TRASH! ‘house cleaning’ before moving on to anchor new self-nurturing stories.
  • There is also a 3 MONTHS option, but results might be less impactful due to the time constraint.

PHASES

Phase 1 – SMASH and TRASH!

  • Identifying weeds
  • Removing weeds

Phase 2 – SELF NURTURING

  • Choosing your seeds
  • Planting the seeds
  • Watering the seeds
  • Harvesting the love

WEEKLY COMMITMENT

The estimated time investment every week will be about 3 hours.

Every week you will have to attend/do –

  • 1 SMASH!ing Coaching Call

    to begin our inner work for the week, (80 mins)

  • 1 Alignment Call

    in mid week to check on your progress, and to share whatever you might want immediate support with, (15 mins)

  • 1 Reflection Email

    that captures the totality of your insights, reflections, thoughts and challenges for the week, as you work through the contents of your SMASH!ing/Alignment calls, Shaktified!, Shakti Dare and SMASH! Diary. (15 mins)

  • SMASH! Diary

    involving daily diary entries, where you are invited to write at least 5 sentences, that summarizes your reflections and insights for the day, and if you like, set an intention or goal for the following day. (20 mins p/wk)

BONUSES

  • Shaktified! (Worth US$400)

    a fun component of Story SMASH!er Program which extends the work that we are doing together, to support you in an all-encompassing holistic manner, as a Shakti (woman standing in her Divine Feminine power).
    This is where the support resources comes into the process, and the Shaktified! activity differs weekly such as Warrior Goddess lessons, Aroma Freedom Technique (AFT), TMRT, Shakti on Fire Coaching Series for Women, etc. (40 mins)

  • SHAKTI Dare

    is an activity, that is aimed to push you beyond your comfort zone. It is meant as a friendly dare for you, to have fun and more playful moments in your life.

    Story SMASH!er program can be intense as you do deep work to rewire your brain, re-author your stories and re-align with your heart.
    The goal of SHAKTI Dare is to help balance you energetically while you do your inner work. (10 mins)
    After all, who says inner work has to be oh so serious all the time? 😉

  • DiSC Profiling (Worth US$100)

    DiSC is a behavior assessment tool based on the DISC theory of psychologist, William Moulton Marston, which centers on four different behavioral traits: dominance, inducement, submission, and compliance.
    You will get your own free DiSC Profiling report to gain greater insights into your own motivations and behavior.

  • Credits Rebate (Worth up to US$300)

    Sometimes it will be tough going because we are doing hard and heart work here. In order to encourage you to stay the course, I will be offering $200 credit rebate (for the 3 months program), and $300 credit rebate (for the 6 months program).

    When you have succeed in finishing your coaching (YEAH!), you will be given credits, which you can use to offset whatever additional/other services I offer outside of your Story SMASH!er package. At no additional cost to you!

    On top of it, I will also allow you to use this rebate, as a gift for someone else. Let’s encourage healing and spread the love around. 🙂

BONUSES UP TO US$800!!!

YOU ARE UNIQUE

You are wonderfully unique and rightly so. The pace of the coaching and how we will move through the different phases, will be determined by your evolution in the process.

This program is for your growth and your nurturing, so YOU, will dictate the pace and our progress. 🙂

DO YOU HAVE WHAT IT TAKES?

Yes, as you would have realized by now, this is NOT a program for the half-hearted, or the indecisive.

It is meant for women who
~ has enough of the pain,
~ really want the change,
~
who is committed to doing the required inner work, to unleash their
Shakti (Divine Feminine power).

Book now for your free discovery call with me.

What do you have to lose?

Hmmm…

How about disempowering stories, negative memories and feelings and a disillusioned future? 🙂

And to encourage you, I will give you an e-copy of my book, where you can read more about my personal journey to self-healing and empowerment and how I re-authored my stories.

Come back home dear Shakti, it’s time.

Check out my podcast interview
at Angel Heart Radio
about Story SMASH!er Program.

Free gifts –

Book your free discovery call here.

COLLABORATION INVITATION

  • Like what you see?
  • Keen to be my affiliate and support others?
  • Have ideas on how we can work together and create more value for the world?

I am all ears! 🙂

Let’s create more co-abundance!

Book our call over here and let’s chat!

Namaste,

Joy Leng

Story SMASH!er

 

 

 

 

MeToo with AFT, NO to sexual harassment

When I first saw #metoo on social media, it immediately triggered in my mind, an episode from my childhood that caused a lot of grief for me as an adolescent. I know that its effects still have a hold on me today.

I also know that many women would have responded to #metoo the same way, with painful flashbacks.

After all, how many women had not been sexually harassed in some big or small ways in their lives, at least once?

I meditated on how, as a life coach and a story SMASHer for women, would I want to respond to #metoo. The easiest way would be to share that episode that I have carried with me for so many years.

That thought jammed my heart into my throat. Woah, that is a big move Joy. Very few people know about that incident.

Admittedly it took a while but I decided yes, that is the most authentic way to approach this subject, from my personal experience. I am grateful to #metoo, because it also reminded me that it was time to heal myself of that emotional scar.

Since it is from a very long time ago, there is nothing I can do now to catch the culprit. It would be impossible to do so. But what I CAN do is heal myself from the wounds it has created.

So today, I have done an Aroma Freedom Technique (AFT) session for myself, revolving around the topic of standing up for myself against sexual harassment.

Something that all women can do, heal ourselves, let go of the past hurts and set an intention to stand up for ourselves moving forward.

Coming back to this traumatic incident. It happened when I was about twelve years old. I was instructed by my parents to get dinner for everyone. So I promptly head off to the coffee-shop to order our takeaways.

Upon reaching my block, I pressed the lift button and waited. At this moment, a Chinese man in his late thirties appeared, strolling by with his bicycle.

I had been trained by my mother to keep a lookout for strangers, especially men. I was instructed to avoid taking lifts with men I don’t know. So yes you can imagine, I perked up, waiting to see if he is passing by or if he is also waiting for the lift.

To my relief, he walked right past me. But not before looking at me intently. My lift came and I hurried in, glad to be alone.

But it was not the case.

Just when the lift door was about to close, it started to move in the opposite direction. I was taken aback. Confusion and fear set in when I saw that it was the same man with the bicycle.

I was standing at the corner farthest from the lift door, and he parked his bicycle diagonally right in the middle of the lift, before he entered. I was completely trapped in a corner by his bicycle that took up the entire lift space.

I was too overwhelmed to react and he pressed the lift door closed. He looked intently at me. Again. I was drenched with a sense of dread. I felt

something very bad was about to happen.

He pressed and moved his hand across my chest, his eyes never once leaving mine. I froze. My hands were occupied with the takeaways, and I had no way to run. I felt a silent scream from within.

I wanted to die.

His floor arrived and he quickly exited. The lift door closed. My legs buckled and I collapsed onto the floor. I was a mess. My floor came but I did not exit. I sat inside the lift, completely blanked out.

At some point, I managed to pick myself up and went home. I feigned illness when I got home, and spend the whole night lying in my bed, tortured by the images from the lift and the molester.

I told no one.

For weeks, I was tormented by the episode. I felt dirty. I felt unworthy. I was ashamed. I was not close to my parents, and I was terrified of telling them.

I would be blamed for not following their instructions. I was the wrong one. I was the bad one. I must be a terrible person, that is why this is happening to me.

I was distraught and destroyed. Still, I did not tell a single soul.

I grew up carrying that unworthiness into my life, like a silent cancer.

Today, as a woman in her thirties, I am telling you, #metoo, this is my story.

What is yours?

Today I decided to put my brave on, and do an AFT session on myself revolving around sexual harassment. I must confess that I went into the session, with a lot of apprehension.

I am not looking forward to experiencing all that pain and horror again. Nevertheless, I went ahead.

This and other hurtful memories and feelings rose up. There is a common thread of unworthiness in the memories and feelings. I wept. I felt nauseous. The waves of pain needed no further encouragement.

I wanted to die.

I pressed on.

Resentment and shame turned into grief. Then my feelings took a turn. I started to feel a sense of determination. I was even feeling upbeat by the last AFT round, which surprised me.

By the time I was done with my power pose, I was invigorated. I felt cleansed and a sense of release.

What took me so long to do this?

  • What sexual harassment episode(s) is/are still haunting you?
  • What can you do about it?
  • How can you bring the culprit to justice?
  • Healing yourself is your own responsibility, what can you do to start the process?
  • What victim story have you been telling yourself &/ others?
  • What ‘poor me’ behaviour have you been acting out in the world?
  • Moving forward, how would you want to be if it ever happens again?

Do something, do anything.

Do something.

SPECIAL INCENTIVE

Book your AFT session and get a free e-copy of my autobiography book, From Zero to Shakti, a woman’s path to self-healing and empowerment. 🙂

P.S. Do note that Young Living oils have been recommended by Dr Perkus for the AFT process.

P.P.S. ~ Free coaching series for women at Shakti on Fire Podcast! 🙂

Namaste.
With all my Shakti love,

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AMAZON ALERT!

Check out my brand new book ‘From Zero to Shakti’
A woman’s path to self-healing and empowerment.
Now available on Amazon and here.
Review on Amazon –
‘The author is very brave, disclosing her personal challenges and the solutions she created. I admire her unselfish sharing, and her courage in undertaking her personal quest.
She traveled a long distance to a special place, and even braved a fire walk–something difficult to imagine. She tells her story in an absorbing way. This book is charming.’

– Shearon B (Australia)
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

*** Take the first step to your GOALS here!

 

Wonder Woman Way – Sexy Fun Empowerment Workshop for Women (Fundraising Event)

This body ~ mind ~ spirit workshop has primarily three parts to it (in order of sequence)

1. Warrior Goddess Meditation

2. Aroma Freedom Technique (AFT)

3. Bellyfit Cardio

1. WARRIOR GODDESS MEDITATION (conducted by Joy Leng)
Based on the teachings of Warrior Goddess Training (by Heather Ash Amara), certified Warrior Goddess Facilitator Joy Leng will walk you through a heart-centered meditation.

2. AROMA FREEDOM TECHNIQUE – AFT (conducted by Joy Leng)
It largely works on the subconscious. It helps to bring out suppressed negative thoughts/beliefs/feelings, clear past traumas, trapped emotions, increase intuition and gain clarity. We will be focusing on the challenges that prevent you from celebrating being a woman and standing fully in your power.

3. BELLYFIT CARDIO (conducted by Anne Elizabeth Moss)
Bellyfit® is the holistic fitness experience for women that blends the power and wisdom of ancient cultures with the research, technology and trends of the modern world.

Designed exclusively for the female body, mind and spirit, Bellyfit® offers a full body, full of spirit, extraordinary exercise experience in a safe, effective, intelligent group fitness format guaranteed to satisfy women’s desire to feel beautiful, strong and healthy.

In the first half hour of the class, burn mega calories, relieve stress and get the sweat flowing with fun, easy to learn cardio moves infused with the ancient and beautiful fundamentals of Bellydance, Bollywood and African Dance.

During the second half of the class, enjoy sculpting, toning and tightening with Pilates inspired core work, a deep yet relaxing Yoga inspired stretch and mindful Mudra Meditation.

Sign up today!

FACILITATORS BIO

ANNE MOSS
Originally from Michigan (USA), Anne has been living in Asia for 7 years while teaching English most of those years. Before moving across the world she studied and performed bellydance for more than a decade, with 3 of those years teaching bellydance in Sarnia, Canada.

She took a yoga teacher training course in India in 2014, and has been able to teach her English students during camps. In addition, she has taught adult yoga, dance and Bellyfit® in Taipei and Singapore.

She has placed in international competitions, performed in 12 countries, holds a Level 3 teaching certificate by the Korean Bellydance Association, hatha/vinyasa yoga (RYT-200), group exercise leadership ( ACE) and Bellyfit® Teacher Certifications. She has worked with Darren Ho’s Le’Mirage Bellydance company for the 2015-2016 season and currently teaches regular Bellyfit® classes in Singapore.

JOY LENG

Joy Leng is the founder of Joylight Transformational Coaching, author of ‘From Zero to Shakti’ and producer of Shakti on Fire Podcast.

She is also an ICF accredited empowerment coach and a certified warrior goddess facilitator, trained by Heather Ash Amara, a Reiki healer and an Aroma Freedom Technique (AFT) practitioner.

Being an adventurous soul, she was among the first, to start a pole dancing studio in Singapore, SensUal Joy Studio in 2005. She is a passionate latin dancer and was a professional dancer for many years before embarking on being a life coach.

She is the founder of For Our Children (FOC), an intiative set up to raise funds to build schools in developing countries. FOC has raised S$12,000 previously to help rebuild Ongkrong Primary School in Cambodia, under Tabitha Cambodia.

Her mission is to ignite kick ass lives and to empower one million women (Shaktis on FIre) to do three million good deeds by 2028.

FUND RAISING FOR FOR OUR CHILDREN (FOC)

83% of proceeds goes to FOC ($40 of every ticket).

Sign up today!

P.S. ~ Get your free Step 1 of Let’s Step! Goal Setting Program and my latest kick ass updates here.​ ~
~ Catch kick ass episodes at Shakti on Fire Podcast! 🙂

Namaste.
With all my Shakti love,

Joy
~ Igniting Kick Ass Lives ~

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

AMAZON ALERT!

Check out my brand new book ‘From Zero to Shakti’
A woman’s path to self-healing and empowerment.
Now available on Amazon and here.
Review on Amazon –
‘The author is very brave, disclosing her personal challenges and the solutions she created. I admire her unselfish sharing, and her courage in undertaking her personal quest.
She traveled a long distance to a special place, and even braved a fire walk–something difficult to imagine. She tells her story in an absorbing way. This book is charming.’

– Shearon B (Australia)
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

*** Take the first step to your GOALS here!

FREE GIFTS

You will receive the following complimentary gifts –

  1. 3 2ml pure essential oils to use for the Aroma Freedom Technique session worth S$10
  2. A paperback copy of Joy’s autobiographical book, From Zero to Shakti worth S$20
  3. An online course, 7 Days Self Compassion Challenge worth US$25

FREE GIFTS VALUED AT US$45

Have sexy fun and ignite your inner wonder woman while doing your part for the children. It can’t get better than this.

Sign up today!

How would you like to be interviewed on Shakti on Fire Podcast?

Hi there,

I have started this new podcast, Shakti on Fire Podcast, healing and empowerment for women. 😍

This podcast is an extension of my book, From Zero to Shakti, a woman’s path to self-healing and empowerment.

I would like to use it as a platform to continue to explore further the universal themes running in the book because these affects everyone and we don’t always know what to do &/ how to go about it.

OPEN to –

1. Professionals/Practitioners/Authorities in the field of

– Healing and empowerment (e.g. mental health, psychotherapy, healers, etc)

– Women empowerment (e.g. different types of coaches in women wellness, etc)

2. Inspirational/exceptional women

In terms of showing authenticity, courage, power, divine feminine)

ADVANTAGES of being on my podcast –

1. Worldwide exposure to your products and services.

2. Add value to your branding

3. Positioned as an authority in your field

4. Your contact details will be made available in the show notes for listeners to contact you.

5. You are allowed and encouraged to give an incentive to the listeners to capture database.

Priority given to –

1. Authors with books in their specialized field.

2. Individuals with an attractive incentive for the listeners.

3. Individuals who have read my book and can bring that into the discussion.

4. Individuals open to be each other’s affiliates &/ joint products/services.

5. Individuals who is open to an extended second written or podcast interview (situational basis)

Let’s make this podcast a powerful platform, for women to find resources, to heal and empower themselves.

Send your message to iamshaktionfire (at) gmail (dot) com.

Please feel free to share it with anyone you deem suitable for the show.

Please note that selection will be based on my discretion.

Thanks with blessings.

Namaste,

Joy

~ Igniting Shaktis on Fire ~

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/shaktionfire

Shakti on Fire Podcast Ep 001- The inspiration behind the podcast

Podcast – http://www.blogtalkradio.com/shaktionfire

  • Who am I and what do I do?
  • What’s the inspiration behind the creation of this podcast?
  • What is Shakti on Fire (SOF)?
  • What can you get from this podcast?
  • What is this Shakti on Fire Vision?
  • How can you be a part of it?

Support me at Patreon! – https://www.patreon.com/shaktionfire

Website – www.joyleng.com

Shakti on Fire FB Group – https://www.meetup.com/ShaktionFire/

LinkedIn – https://sg.linkedin.com/in/joyleng

FB – www.facebook.com/joymycoach

My latest book – www.fromzerotoshakti.joyleng.com

Free Chapter Giveaway of my book – http://bit.ly/2o1q0hV

Online Courses/Coaching – www.joylight.teachable.com

My media bio – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1-h8Fhtag9k

Grab my book here –

www.fromzerotoshakti.joyleng.com

Kick Ass Shakti – Coaching for Women

‘Empowering heart-centered women since 2005’

~ Igniting Shaktis on Fire ~

BRAVO!

Welcome my brave Shakti.

Shakti means goddess in Hindu and it symbolizes power.

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I am so thrilled that you are here, ready to spread your glorious wings and fly!

That means you are thinking of

  • Igniting your Shakti on Fire,

  • Activating your natural gifts as a woman and

  • Reclaiming the kick ass life you are destined for.

Hell yeah!

                                     photographer. www.kceng.me

~~~~~~~~~

“Joy helped me to become a more confident person.
She also equips me with the required skills
and support to achieve my desired outcomes.
She is genuinely concerned and interested in her clients
and definitely goes the extra mile to support them.”
– Trina Wong
(April 2016)

If you believe

  • You are more than just your mind, or your body
  • You can do more with the natural intuition you are born with as a woman
  • You can have more joy and PL@Y! in your life
  • You can manifest your true power by owning your authentic self

It’s playtime! 🙂

IF YOU BELIEVE IT IS TIME TO PLAY ALL OUT, THEN KICK ASS SHAKTI IS YOUR GAME.

For KICK ASS SHAKTI, you will get –

– 1 (1.5hrs) Kick Ass Jumpstart Session

– 12 (1.5hrs) coaching sessions

– 6 (20 mins) Weekly Check In Sessions

– Free copy of my latest book, From Zero to Shakti (eBook worth US$4.99)

– Free 7 Days Self Compassion Challenge (eCourse format worth US$25)

– Free Let’s Step! Goal Setting Program (eCourse worth US$99)

– Free DiSC Psychometric Profiling and Debrief (Worth US$120)

– DiSC Psychometric Profiling and Debrief at half price for another person
(Not included in package price, retailing at US$120)

– Free 20mins coaching for another person

_______________

“My dearest Joy,
thank you for making me into a beautiful phoenix
when I most needed a change.
You are one of the most amazing woman I know
who would want to make another woman feel empowered and beautiful
regardless of age or size.

– Charlotte Lee (May 2013)

COACHING PACKAGES

Check out all the coaching packages here –

SHAKTI BABY

SHAKTI ABLAZE

KICK ASS SHAKTI

NO. OF SESSIONS 1 (1.5hrs) 12 (1.5hrs) 12 (1.5hours) AND
SPECIALS 1 Kick Ass Jumpstart Session (1.5hrs)
6 Weekly Check In Calls (20mins)
BONUSES
– FROM ZERO TO SHAKTI EBOOK (US$4.99)
– 7 DAYS SELF COMPASSION CHALLENGE (US$25)
– DiSC PROFILING/DEBRIEF (US$120)
– LET’S STEP! GOAL SETTING PROGRAM (US$99)
HALF PRICE DiSC PROFILING FOR YOU
HALF PRICE DiSC PROFILING FOR ANOTHER PERSON
FREE 20 MINS COACHING FOR ANOTHER PERSON
VALID FOR 9 MONTHS 9 MONTHS 9 MONTHS
INVESTMENT (US$) 140 1,440 1,745

Note –

  1. These sessions can be conducted via Skype, Facetime or face to face in Singapore.
  2. If you want to do a package (Shakti Ablaze / Kick Ass Shakti) after you finished your Shakti Baby session, you have a top up option for 7 days. 🙂
  3. You can purchase it as a gift for someone.
  4. All packages are valid for 9 months from the date of purchase.

    BOOK YOUR PACKAGE HERE

OUR COACHING PROCESS

CLEAR —> CLARIFY –> CELEBRATE!

1. CLEAR

First, we clear the blockages trapped in your body, your mind, your spirit and in your energy force (‘qi’). No amount of planning serves any purpose if you do not first clear the obstacles in your way.

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2. CLARIFY

  • Next, we clarify and confirm your intentions.
  • We also examine what self limiting beliefs you might have that is hindering you or what ‘masks’ that you have been wearing to protect yourself.
  • Then we explore what options are available for you
  • To expend your focused effort
  • For the best possibility to reach your desired outcomes.

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3. CELEBRATE!

Having cleared your path, declared your intention and established the right course of action for your goals, it is time to celebrate and express your victorious path with your beautiful goddess body.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
“Joy has helped me to build my confidence.
She brings out the unexplored outer beauty in me
and urges me to seek my inner beauty.”

– Christine Lim
(March 2012)

BOOK YOUR PACKAGE HERE

EACH SESSION CONSISTS OF

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1. BREATH WORK/MEDITATION/INTENTION SETTING

Using breathwork to ground you into the present before we start our session together.

Using meditation to channel your focus into the intention for the coaching session.

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2. MIND MAP COACHING (WHOLE BRAIN CONVERSATION)


Using my training from my psychology degree and as an International Coach Federation coach,

We will have a fun, yet meaning session

Using colours and our conversation,

To create a masterpiece of our conversation

We will focus on –

  • The goal for our coaching time together ,
  • Challenge your thought processes and
  • Clarify your highest values
  • Establish what action needs to be taken
  • Propel you towards your desired outcomes.

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3. MOVEMENT GROUNDING

Being one of the first to start a pole dancing studio in Singapore in 2005, I have seen and experienced personally, the power of movement as a potent self-revitalizing tool.

While intellectually, you may have engaged in the conversation, and logically came to your conclusions, these precious insights are not grounded in your body .
Mentally you ‘get’ it, but your body don’t.

Ever ‘understood’ something and yet, did not feel it or lost motivation for it afterwards?

Hence, we need to involve your physical being, into the coaching conversation.

This ensures that the insights, the commitment and the inspired action are now in complete alignment with your entire being.

That’s when true personal Shakti happens.

We will use your natural movement

  • To celebrate the awakening of your Shakti-self and
  • To ensure that what you have explored during the coaching session is also acknowledged and affirmed by your body.
  • To cements your body*mind*spirit alignment to your goals.

P.s. NO dancing experienced required. Your body will surprise you how it comes alive. Stay receptive. 🙂

“I was immediately struck by Joy’s vibrant energy.
She is a compassionate person with a quick mind,
and I found her coaching to be skillful and intuitive.

If you ever need coaching, I would recommend her:
not only will she help sort you out,
she will be your cheerleader every step of the way!”

– Rimi Yoshida
(March 2016)

BOOK YOUR PACKAGE HERE

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Shakti Ablaze – Coaching for Women

‘Empowering heart-centered women since 2005’

~ Igniting Shaktis on Fire ~

BRAVO!

Welcome my brave Shakti.

Shakti means goddess in Hindu and it symbolizes power.

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I am so thrilled that you are here, ready to spread your glorious wings and fly!

That means you are thinking of

  • Igniting your Shakti on Fire,

  • Activating your natural gifts as a woman and

  • Reclaiming the kick ass life you are destined for.

Hell yeah!

                                 photographer. www.kceng.me

~~~~~~~~~

“Joy helped me to become a more confident person.
She also equips me with the required skills
and support to achieve my desired outcomes.
She is genuinely concerned and interested in her clients
and definitely goes the extra mile to support them.”
– Trina Wong
(April 2016)

If you believe

  • You are more than just your mind, or your body
  • You can do more with the natural intuition you are born with as a woman
  • You can have more joy and PL@Y! in your life
  • You can manifest your true power by owning your authentic self

It’s playtime! 🙂

For SHAKTI ABLAZE, you will get –

– 1 1.5hrs coaching session

– Free copy of my latest book, From Zero to Shakti (eBook)

– Free 7 Days Self Compassion Challenge (eCourse format

– DiSC Psychometric Profiling and Debrief at half price
(Not included in package price, retailing at US$120)

COACHING PACKAGES

Check out all the coaching packages here –

SHAKTI BABY

SHAKTI ABLAZE

KICK ASS SHAKTI

NO. OF SESSIONS 1 (1.5hrs) 12 (1.5hrs) 12 (1.5hours) AND
SPECIALS 1 Kick Ass Jumpstart Session (1.5hrs)
6 Weekly Check In Calls (20mins)
BONUSES
– FROM ZERO TO SHAKTI EBOOK (US$4.99)
– 7 DAYS SELF COMPASSION CHALLENGE (US$25)
– DiSC PROFILING/DEBRIEF (US$120)
– LET’S STEP! GOAL SETTING PROGRAM (US$99)
HALF PRICE DiSC PROFILING FOR YOU
HALF PRICE DiSC PROFILING FOR ANOTHER PERSON
FREE 20 MINS COACHING FOR ANOTHER PERSON
VALID FOR 9 MONTHS 9 MONTHS 9 MONTHS
INVESTMENT (US$) 140 1,440 1,745

Note –

  1. These sessions can be conducted via Skype, Facetime or face to face in Singapore.
  2. If you want to do a package (Shakti Ablaze / Kick Ass Shakti) after you finished your Shakti Baby session, you have a top up option for 7 days. 🙂
  3. You can purchase it as a gift for someone.
  4. All packages are valid for 9 months from the date of purchase.

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“My dearest Joy,
thank you for making me into a beautiful phoenix
when I most needed a change.
You are one of the most amazing woman I know
who would want to make another woman feel empowered and beautiful
regardless of age or size.

– Charlotte Lee (May 2013)

READY TO GET YOUR SHAKTI ABLAZE?

OUR COACHING PROCESS

CLEAR —> CLARIFY –> CELEBRATE!

1. CLEAR

First, we clear the blockages trapped in your body, your mind, your spirit and in your energy force (‘qi’). No amount of planning serves any purpose if you do not first clear the obstacles in your way.

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2. CLARIFY

  • Next, we clarify and confirm your intentions.
  • We also examine what self limiting beliefs you might have that is hindering you or what ‘masks’ that you have been wearing to protect yourself.
  • Then we explore what options are available for you
  • To expend your focused effort
  • For the best possibility to reach your desired outcomes.

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3. CELEBRATE!

Having cleared your path, declared your intention and established the right course of action for your goals, it is time to celebrate and express your victorious path with your beautiful goddess body.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
“Joy has helped me to build my confidence.
She brings out the unexplored outer beauty in me
and urges me to seek my inner beauty within.

– Christine Lim
(March 2012)

BOOK YOUR PACKAGE HERE

EACH SESSION CONSISTS OF

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1. BREATH WORK/MEDITATION/INTENTION SETTING

Using breathwork to ground you into the present before we start our session together.

Using meditation to channel your focus into the intention for the coaching session.

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2. MIND MAP COACHING (WHOLE BRAIN CONVERSATION)


Using my training from my psychology degree and as an International Coach Federation coach,

We will have a fun, yet meaning session

Using colours and our conversation,

To create a masterpiece of our conversation

We will focus on –

  • The goal for our coaching time together ,
  • Challenge your thought processes and
  • Clarify your highest values
  • Establish what action needs to be taken
  • Propel you towards your desired outcomes.

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3. MOVEMENT GROUNDING

Being one of the first to start a pole dancing studio in Singapore in 2005, I have seen and experienced personally, the power of movement as a potent self-revitalizing tool.

While intellectually, you may have engaged in the conversation, and logically came to your conclusions, these precious insights are not grounded in your body .
Mentally you ‘get’ it, but your body don’t.

Ever ‘understood’ something and yet, did not feel it or lost motivation for it afterwards?

Hence, we need to involve your physical being, into the coaching conversation.

This ensures that the insights, the commitment and the inspired action are now in complete alignment with your entire being.

That’s when true personal Shakti happens.

We will use your natural movement

  • To celebrate the awakening of your Shakti-self and
  • To ensure that what you have explored during the coaching session is also acknowledged and affirmed by your body.
  • To cements your body*mind*spirit alignment to your goals.

P.s. NO dancing experienced required. Your body will surprise you how it comes alive. Stay receptive. 🙂

“I was immediately struck by Joy’s vibrant energy.
She is a compassionate person with a quick mind,
and I found her coaching to be skillful and intuitive.

If you ever need coaching, I would recommend her:
not only will she help sort you out,
she will be your cheerleader every step of the way!”

– Rimi Yoshida
(March 2016)

GRAB YOUR PACKAGE HERE!

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Shakti Baby – Coaching for Women

‘Empowering heart-centered women since 2005’

~ Igniting Shaktis on Fire ~

BRAVO!

Welcome my brave Shakti.

Shakti means goddess in Hindu and it symbolizes power.

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I am so thrilled that you are here, ready to spread your glorious wings and fly!

That means you are thinking of

  • Igniting your Shakti on Fire,

  • Activating your natural gifts as a woman and

  • Reclaiming the kick ass life you are destined for.

Hell yeah!

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“Joy helped me to become a more confident person.
She also equips me with the required skills
and support to achieve my desired outcomes.
She is genuinely concerned and interested in her clients
and definitely goes the extra mile to support them.”
– Trina Wong
(April 2016)

If you believe

  • You are more than just your mind, or your body
  • You can do more with the natural intuition you are born with as a woman
  • You can have more joy and PL@Y! in your life
  • You can manifest your true power by owning your authentic self

It’s playtime! 🙂

For SHAKTI BABY, you will get –

– 1 1.5hrs coaching session

– Free copy of my latest book, From Zero to Shakti (eBook)

– Free 7 Days Self Compassion Challenge (eCourse format)

GRAB YOUR PACKAGE HERE!

COACHING PACKAGES

Check out all the coaching packages here –

SHAKTI BABY

SHAKTI ABLAZE

KICK ASS SHAKTI

NO. OF SESSIONS 1 (1.5hrs) 12 (1.5hrs) 12 (1.5hours) AND
SPECIALS 1 Kick Ass Jumpstart Session (1.5hrs)
6 Weekly Check In Calls (20mins)
BONUSES
– FROM ZERO TO SHAKTI EBOOK (US$4.99)
– 7 DAYS SELF COMPASSION CHALLENGE (US$25)
– DiSC PROFILING/DEBRIEF (US$120)
– LET’S STEP! GOAL SETTING PROGRAM (US$99)
HALF PRICE DiSC PROFILING FOR YOU
HALF PRICE DiSC PROFILING FOR ANOTHER PERSON
FREE 20 MINS COACHING FOR ANOTHER PERSON
VALID FOR 9 MONTHS 9 MONTHS 9 MONTHS
INVESTMENT (US$) 140 1,440 1,745

Note –

  1. These sessions can be conducted via Skype, Facetime or face to face in Singapore.
  2. If you want to do a package (Shakti Ablaze / Kick Ass Shakti) after you finished your Shakti Baby session, you have a top up option for 7 days. 🙂
  3. You can purchase it as a gift for someone.
  4. All packages are valid for 9 months from the date of purchase.

_______________

“My dearest Joy,
thank you for making me into a beautiful phoenix
when I most needed a change.
You are one of the most amazing woman I know
who would want to make another woman feel empowered and beautiful
regardless of age or size.

– Charlotte Lee (May 2013)

GRAB YOUR PACKAGE HERE!

OUR COACHING PROCESS

CLEAR —> CLARIFY –> CELEBRATE!

1. CLEAR

First, we clear the blockages trapped in your body, your mind, your spirit and in your energy force (‘qi’). No amount of planning serves any purpose if you do not first clear the obstacles in your way.

EC-Identity4-7

2. CLARIFY

  • Next, we clarify and confirm your intentions.
  • We also examine what self limiting beliefs you might have that is hindering you or what ‘masks’ that you have been wearing to protect yourself.
  • Then we explore what options are available for you
  • To expend your focused effort
  • For the best possibility to reach your desired outcomes.

We-Should-Be-Dancin-2-27

3. CELEBRATE!

Having cleared your path, declared your intention and established the right course of action for your goals, it is time to celebrate and express your victorious path with your beautiful goddess body.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
“Joy has helped me to build my confidence.
She brings out the unexplored outer beauty in me
and urges me to seek my inner beauty within.”

– Christine Lim
(March 2012)

GRAB YOUR PACKAGE HERE!

EACH SESSION CONSISTS OF

Namaste-6-2337

1. BREATH WORK/MEDITATION/INTENTION SETTING

Using breathwork to ground you into the present before we start our session together.

Using meditation to channel your focus into the intention for the coaching session.

Statuesque-3-2368

2. MIND MAP COACHING (WHOLE BRAIN CONVERSATION)


Using my training from my psychology degree and as an International Coach Federation coach,

We will have a fun, yet meaning session

Using colours and our conversation,

To create a masterpiece of our conversation

We will focus on –

  • The goal for our coaching time together ,
  • Challenge your thought processes and
  • Clarify your highest values
  • Establish what action needs to be taken
  • Propel you towards your desired outcomes.

danceconversatn

3. MOVEMENT GROUNDING

Being one of the first to start a pole dancing studio in Singapore in 2005, I have seen and experienced personally, the power of movement as a potent self-revitalizing tool.

While intellectually, you may have engaged in the conversation, and logically came to your conclusions, these precious insights are not grounded in your body .
Mentally you ‘get’ it, but your body don’t.

Ever ‘understood’ something and yet, did not feel it or lost motivation for it afterwards?

Hence, we need to involve your physical being, into the coaching conversation.

This ensures that the insights, the commitment and the inspired action are now in complete alignment with your entire being.

That’s when true personal Shakti happens.

We will use your natural movement

  • To celebrate the awakening of your Shakti-self and
  • To ensure that what you have explored during the coaching session is also acknowledged and affirmed by your body.
  • To cements your body*mind*spirit alignment to your goals.

P.s. NO dancing experienced required. Your body will surprise you how it comes alive. Stay receptive. 🙂

“I was immediately struck by Joy’s vibrant energy.
She is a compassionate person with a quick mind,
and I found her coaching to be skillful and intuitive.

If you ever need coaching, I would recommend her:
not only will she help sort you out,
she will be your cheerleader every step of the way!”

– Rimi Yoshida
(March 2016)

GRAB YOUR PACKAGE HERE!

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