What it’s like to be coached by Joy

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“I met Joy through CTRT training and was immediately struck by her vibrant energy. She is a compassionate person with a quick mind, and I found her coaching to be skillful and intuitive.

As a practitioner in emotional healing I’m usually on the giving end, so it was wonderful to be on the receiving end for a change!

If you ever need coaching, I would recommend you see her: not only will she help sort you out, she will be your cheerleader every step of the way!”
– Rimi Yoshida

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“My coaching experience was very helpful in looking at my goals, setting priorities and taking action.

I really enjoyed discussing my principles and values with Joy who listens with respect and authenticity.

I’ll recommend life coaching with Joy Leng to anyone!

Thank you!”

Ivan Chew, youth worker

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“My dearest Joy, thank you for making me into a beautiful phoenix when I most needed a change. You are one of the most amazing woman I know who would want to make another woman feel empowered and beautiful regardless of age or size.

– Charlotte Lee (May 2013), Volunteer Management & Training Executive at Lions Befrienders

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“Joy, is different from the rest. She has helped me to build my confidence. She brings out the unexplored outer beauty in me and urges me to find the inner beauty by myself.”
– Christine Lim (March 2012)
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“Since I started on this journey with Joy to work on my goals, she has helped me to become a more confident person. Joy ensures that the goal I set is what I really wanted by skilfully asking me probing and investigative questions.

She also equips me with the required skills and support necessary in obtaining my desired outcomes. She is genuinely concerned and interested in her clients and definitely goes the extra mile to support them.”

– Trina Wong (April 2016)

Dear Joy,

I have huge respect for you. You are an excellent coach.

– Vishal Kapoor (April 2016)
Head Audit, DBS Bank

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What’s your goal and how are you going to get there?

Let’s get started today.

Here’s to your elevation!

I have known Joy since 2002. Through these years, Joy has always impressed me as a passionate person, full of life fuelled by an intense desire to give back to the community in various ways.

Joy strikes me as a people person, possessing an innate ability to easily connect with others. Perhaps, this stems from her keen interest in life, in general. I sense too that she endears herself to others through her attractive personality.

I also admire her resilience and drive. I believe these are the qualities that would put her in good stead whenever she is serving or helping. She is someone who not only possess the grit to overcome challenges but the creativity to innovate as well.

– Dr John Tan (16 March 2005)
Founder of CARE Singapore

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Thanks for reading.

Your Transformational Coach,

Joy Leng

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ON your Joylight! :)
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Testimonial – Shuling’s Pole Dancing Therapy

When Joy invited me to share my pole dancing class experience, I said YES without hesitation.

It is a great pleasure and an honor to

1. Share all the benefits I’ve gained from pole dancing at SensUal Joy and

2. Encourage any lady who is thinking of taking up pole dancing to STOP over-analyzing and JUST DO IT!

Do it out of self-love. It is absolutely 100% worth it. YOU are worth it.

Allow me to elaborate on my enthusiasm for pole dance classes in SensUal Joy.

1. A Sense Of Inner Peace And Happiness

The combination of it all, getting to know myself, being able to do the things I wasn’t able to do before and gaining new knowledge has given me a sense of inner peace. I always feel extremely satisfied and happy with myself at the end of class. It is so Happy, Healthy and SensUal!

Joy says it is all the endorphins circulating in my body after the workout. But who cares why?! I feel HAPPY! JOYFUL! EXUBERANT! Ready to take on the world!

2. A Sense of Confidence About My Own Physical And Mental Abilities And How Fabulous I Really Am!

As I do not have a dance background, to be able to execute moves worth of any professional dancers makes me feel REALLY GOOD ABOUT MYSELF.

Once I did my first swing walk, I felt transformed to another person. And my confidence has grown steadily lesson after lesson, one successful move after another.

My sense of pride swells each and every time that I manage to climb the pole and slide down. It doesn’t even matter if it was not executed in perfection. Just being able to climb the pole is an achievement in itself!

*beaming with pride*

3. I Have Learnt To Trust Myself

This is HUGE for me! To climb the pole and to do my pole swings requires so much courage from my part. There is always a part of me cluttered with fear holding me back. But slowly, little by little, I learnt to trust my body’s instincts. To trust ME to take care of myself and to simply let go.

4. I Have Learnt To Let Go

I have learnt that pole dancing is a lot about allowing the body and your own instinct to take over. You are required to visualize the move you want to execute beforehand. Imagination plays a big part. Eventually, it is your body that has to act it out.

So you have to let go of the chatter in your head and just do it. Release and allow your body to take over. The moment that happens, it becomes natural. Everything falls into place and I execute my move. A fantastic surprise. I DID IT!

5. I Have Learnt The Beauty And Rewards of Persistence And Knowing It Is OK To Make Mistakes

First, Joy will demonstrate the move I am about to learn together with detailed explanations. Next, she will allow me to make my first feeble attempt. I sometimes end up looking silly. Such as when I couldn’t climb the pole or when some of the swings simply go “wrong.”

Trust me, it looks really awkward. Joy will then give me more coaching and then leave me alone to work at it. That personal time with the pole helps to develop my relationship with the pole.

No matter how much Joy says or show me, I still have to be the one to take action and keep doing it until I get it right. To make mistakes and keep trying. Especially when it is a tricky pole trick that I have to nail down.

WOW, the feeling is AMAZING – “I DID IT. I FINALLY DID IT.” It is such an awesome feeling and I would feel on top of the world!

6. I Have Discovered It’s More Than OK To Be Comfortable With My Own SensUality And Sexuality.

I Can Be Proud Of It.

I was never taught about sensUality. (Perhaps it is supposed to come naturally?) I used to be really frightened and confused about my sexuality. It started during adolescence when men started to look at me differently – no longer as a little girl, but as a sexual object.

And I had no idea about what to do with the power I had over men. As a result, my sensUality scares me. But learning pole dancing from Joy, receiving her encouragement and most of all, seeing first-hand another woman being comfortable in her own sensUal self has helped me tremendously.

Witnessing somebody else be BOTH sensUal and respectable at the same time proves to me it is possible for me too. It is not dirty to be sensUal. It is OK for me to just be myself.

7. I Have Learnt The Importance Of And How To Slow Down

(Calm Down)

There is something so deliciously sensUal about a woman when she just slow down to indulge in and savour every moment of a pole slide. Leaning against the pole while rotating your hips … oooooh HOT!

A lady natural sexy side is on display. Some moves requires you to go a little faster, some moves slower, adding flavor and variety to your routine and making it so much more interesting.

So for someone like me who tends to go turbo speed feels as if I am almost forced to slow down. It becomes a different, surprising, wonderful, soothing and pampering experience.

8. I Learnt How To Get In Touch With My Body And Own It

Joy introduced to me the concept of free hand play –> touching myself, my hair, my body, all over and loving it.

How do I explain this?

It is a liberating experience for me, touching myself… like giving myself a personal massage. Affirming to my body that it is beautiful, wonderful, fantastic, amazing, attractive and I love and approve of it!

9. I Have Found A Scared Space And Sanctuary Where My Inner Goddess Feels Safe To Reveal Herself

Thank to the atmosphere that Joy has painstakingly created in her studio as well as her coaching skills. From the decor of red velvet drapes, soft lighting, crazy horse lights during show-time, to the sensUal music and her warm, gentle but firm and encouraging guidance that has helped me to feel completely relaxed.

Given the right non-judgmental environment, my SensUal Goddess feels at ease to reveal herself. All the little details in the atmosphere has made a great difference in my sensUal journey.

Gratefully, the intimate setting in SensUal Joy always makes me feel extremely pampered and secure. Safe to express and to be myself.

10. I Am Proud To Say I Now Have A Stronger, More Fit And Even More Fabulous Body!

I attribute this to the natural strengthening and aerobic/cardiovascular exercise that pole dancing has given me ranging from the pole slides to the pole swings.

Pole dancing may look easy, but it is not for wimps. It takes energy to pull it off and to look great while at it. But it is so much fun at the same time too!

To Sum It All Up

Pole dancing at SensUal Joy has been FUN; has brought me more CONFIDENCE, more JOY, more INNER PEACE, more HAPPINESS.

Each time I pole dance, I am reminded of the

  • importance of trusting myself,
  • letting go,
  • being persistent,
  • being comfortable and
  • proud of my own sensUality and sexUality and
  • to slow down.

Even more importantly, through pole dancing, I have realized that I already possess ALL these qualities. I am now better acquainted with my body through feel, touch and instinct. My body is also stronger and looking more fabulous than ever.

Conclusion

SensUal Joy has become a SANCTUARY for me, a sacred space where my inner Goddess feels welcome, safe and ready to reveal herself. Whenever I pole dance at SensUal Joy, my inner Goddess comes out to play, have fun, celebrate and enjoy life!

Do yourself a favor and get coaching from Joy too!

Lots of Love,

Shuling

p/s. I wasn’t paid to say all these things. These are my heartfelt feelings, thoughts and gratitude towards SensUal Joy for bringing me all these wonderful gifts and more into my life. I’m eternally grateful to Joy for accompanying me on my body, heart, mind and soul’s healing journey.

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​For more information on my background

For Our Children (FOC) initiative

Coaching with Joy to Ignite your Shakti on Fire (SOF)

“I met Joy through CTRT training and was immediately struck by her vibrant energy. She is a compassionate person with a quick mind, and I found her coaching to be skillful and intuitive. As a practitioner in emotional healing I’m usually on the giving end, so it was wonderful to be on the receiving end for a change! If you ever need coaching, I would recommend you see her: not only will she help sort you out, she will be your cheerleader every step of the way!” – Rimi Yoshida

Greetings from Joylight!

I am Joy, a storyteller , dancer of life and a midwife for Shaktis-on-Fire.

  • Have you ever felt that there has got to be more to life than the daily grinding that you are experiencing now?

  • Have you ever wish that life can magically freeze in time so you can have time to breath?

  • Do you secretly wish for more joy in your life and more space to enjoy not being a wife, a daughter-in-law or a mother, but just simply, enjoy being a woman?

Are you a woman who is

  • tired of feeling constantly stressed out,

  • who wants to find a sense of balance in her life and

  • who wants to have sacred space in her life celebrate the joy of being a woman?

You are at the right place. 🙂 I dream the same for you. My desire is to empower you to

~ RECHARGE your life source ~ RENEW your life focus and ~ REIGNITE your goddess-hood.

Arise now sweet Shakti-on-Fire! It’s time for us to take a pivotal pilgrimage into your inner landscape & awaken your Shakti on Fire (SOF). Start your coaching today.

How much do you know about yourself?

Using DiSC personality profiling, we will discover more about you and your motivations. Let’s investigate what excites this Shakti-on-Fire and what strengths you possess that we can unleash powerfully into your life and into the world.

I am here to serve.

Same reason why I was inspired to start For Our Children (FOC) Singapore to raise funds to build schools for children in third world countries. Serving is my way of life. There is no you versus me. There is only us. One consciousness.

QUALIFIED TO SERVE

I am trained in / am a

  • Psychology (BA in Psychology with Edith Cowan University)
  • NLP
  • Certified Associate Coach (CAC)
  • DiSC Profiling
  • Practical Counseling
  • Narrative Therapy
  • Choice Theory Reality Therapy (William Glasser Institute)
  • Business Studies(Ngee Ann Poly)
  • English (University of London)
  • Make Up Artistry (Cosmoprof)
  • Certificate in Teaching English to Speakers of Other Languages (CELTA) (Cambridge)
  • Certified Warrior Goddess facilitator, trained by Heather Ash Amara (Author of Warrior Goddess Way)
  • SheDance facilitator, trained by Areeradh K Tri-siddha (Founder of SheDance)

Decisive actions is the pathway to success.

That is where I come in and be a co-creator for your action plan on how you, the awakened Shakti-on-Fire is going to live as your highest self and what wondrous manifestations would you want to bless yourself and others with .  

I know about pitch black holes.

I was an adopted child who spend a lifetime struggling with my sense of abandonment and worthlessness. So trust me, I know about self limiting beliefs. I will share with you what has worked for me using the power of authenticity and self-compassion. No dark place is too dark for a candle to be lit. three-candles-of-various-heights Are you, the sleeping goddess ready to shine a light now on your pitch black hole? 🙂 My GOAL is for you to experience the power & freedom of an empowered mind and activate your natural strengths as a Shakti-on-Fire. THAT IS YOUR BIRTHRIGHT.

I am ready and eager.

to use my skills, abilities, passion and life experiences to empower you. ONLY if you are willing to commit. An unwilling and uncommitted goddess will not be able to serve her’s and the world’s highest good. Start your coaching today. So, How ready are you, sweet goddess, to be – Open to creative methods (let’s play!)? – Have a committed and ‘can do!’ attitude? – Be willing to UNravel your old self and UNlearn the self limiting beliefs that you have hold on to as self identity? In short, are you ready for a rebirth? My vision is the uprising of one million Shakti-on-Fire. Are you one of us? Book your coaching here.

Ready to serve. When you are ready.

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“Since I started on this journey with Joy to work on my goals, she has helped me to become a more confident person. Joy ensures that the goal I set is what I really wanted by skilfully asking me probing and investigative questions.
She also equips me with the required skills and support necessary in obtaining my desired outcomes. She is genuinely concerned and interested in her clients and definitely goes the extra mile to support them.”
– Trina Wong (April 2016)

WHAT’S NEXT?

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LET’s PLAY!

I believe that coaching can be fun and productive at the same time. As a model, dancer, make up artiste and photographer, I know how empowering such arts have been on my self esteem and my well-being. I had personally benefited from using arts as a 16 year old lost girl to build my low self esteem. You can read about my story here. Hence, I can confidently say that these are methods worth exploring if you are seeking to awaken the Shakti-on-Fire within and activate the Divine Feminine. Hear what some goddesses have to about our playtime together! 🙂

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182686_557129450972212_1324591850_n 487608_489629341055557_903901606_n – My dearest friend, thank you for making me into a beautiful phoenix when I most needed a change. You are one of the most amazing woman I know who would want to make another woman feel empowered and beautiful regardless of age or size. – Charlotte Lee

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– I have done several bodypaint shoots with Joy and each time, she demonstrates a fresh streak of artistry and executes her make-up, body paint and hair styling competently. Every shoot stands out without fail, and they are never repeated. More importantly, Joy goes beyond just work; she creates strong relationships with others and builds up other ladies’ confidence with her positivism and encouragement. It is always an excitement to work with her. – Erica A9031E A9153E A9175E – Joy is my amazing make up artiste and my photographer for various photo-shoots for different themes. She does great work editing my photos and she sends them to me on time. Highly recommended. She is patient, diligent and knows her work well. Also, I have received many compliments on my hair and makeup from the shoots I have done with her. – Miri Yeo

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– Joy has wonderful make up skills. I was very comfortable during the whole duration when she did my make up. She was astute in the selection of colours and shades for me, from the foundation to the eye shadow colours. I had a most radiant appearance by the time she was done with me. It was delightful to look at myself in the mirror. I was so thrilled. I am appreciative of her superb make up skills. Thank you Joy! – Miho 15 Feb 2015 9457E

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– Joy is an excellent makeup artist and photographer. She will always discuss with me beforehand on the type of makeup and hairstyle for the shoots. Also, she has a good artistic sense. I especially love her choice of eye and lip colour. She uses colour that I will normally not apply but the effect always turned out wonderful. Be warned though, she always have an intense expression on her face during photoshoots but if you get over it you are guaranteed to have a lot of fun with her. – Kyoko 559510_489236997761458_231003671_n 561785_499610463390778_2143055482_n – Joy, is different from the rest. It’s not just because she performs great makeup. It’s because she has helped me to build my confidence. She brings out the unexplored outer beauty in me and urges me to find the inner beauty by myself. – Christine August 2012 549800_547038091981348_1812420455_n Lola-6-9477 – ‘It was a pleasure working with Joy. I loved the make up she did on me and the photoshoot process. What I love most was the creative way she attempted to experiment with different hair styles and accessories. Also, I felt very comfortable because she was very patient with me being quite clueless as a new model, providing me with constant guidance and direction. – Catherine Lim Apr 2013 Come now sweet goddess, it’s time for us to play. 🙂 woman wolf Let’s take action to create your kick ass life today.

Here’s to your elevation!

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I have known Joy since 2002. Through these years, Joy has always impressed me as a passionate person, full of life fuelled by an intense desire to give back to the community in various ways.

Joy strikes me as a people person, possessing an innate ability to easily connect with others. Perhaps, this stems from her keen interest in life, in general. I sense too that she endears herself to others through her attractive personality.

I also admire her resilience and drive. I believe these are the qualities that would put her in good stead whenever she is serving or helping. She is someone who not only possess the grit to overcome challenges but the creativity to innovate as well.

– Dr John Tan (16 March 2005) Founder of CARE Singapore

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*** The most important relationship you will ever have in your life is with yourself. I dare you to take on the Self Compassion 7 Days Challenge. Let’s start flexing our self-love muscles. Are you in or out?

Your Transformational Coach, Joy Leng

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P.S. Have you downloaded your FREE

Ready to serve if you
  • Desire momentum and accountability to achieve your life goals.
  • Want to take advantage of DiSC personality profiling to understand your/your team’s strengths and to maximize productivity and harmony.
  • Are looking for an inspiring speaker sharing truths from real life experience.
Book a FREE 20 minutes Skype session at me (at) joyleng.com for

  • Yourself or
  • For someone you feel who is in need of an empowerment coach.

10% of my net profit goes to support For Our Children (FOC).

 

Dr John Tan Testimonial

I am writing to provide a testimonial for Ms Joy Leng as I have known her since 2002 when she applied to serve as a volunteer with our agency.

Through these years, Joy has always impressed me as a passionate person, full of life fuelled by an intense desire to give back to the community in various ways.

Joy strikes me as a people person, possessing an innate ability to easily connect with others. Perhaps, this stems from her keen interest in life, in general. I sense too that she endears herself to others through her attractive personality.

I also admire her resilience and drive. I believe these are qualities that would put her in good stead wherever she is serving or helping. She is someone who not only possesses the grit to overcome challenges but the creativity to innovate as well.

Yours truly,

Dr John K E Tan

Executive Director

CARE Singapore

Professor John Matthew Testimonial

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I have known Joy Leng for about 5 years when I was working as professor in National Institute of Education, Nanyang Technological University, Singapore. I worked in Visual and Performing Arts and when teaching drawing and painting within the visual arts department I employed Joy Leng as a model.

She was an excellent model and she contributed a great deal to the class. She brought her skills and her creativity as a dancer to my classes. She helped motivate the students and they enjoyed her company.

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She would sometimes allow us to draw her team of dancers from her events company, in the city. She added greatly to the success of my classes and helped my students develop as draughts-persons, because with her input, I was able to break the mould of the sometimes stifling approach to drawing practiced in Singapore education. She helped give the students some freedom by her own example of creative dance.

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Joy has a very good and unstinting work ethic. I understand that she constantly would like to extend her own education and I think that she deserved to be given a chance to do this.

As well as being friendly and charming, she is very clever and intelligent young woman. I can recommend her wholeheartedly.

Yours faithfully,

Professor John Matthews,

9 October 2008