Shakti on Fire Podcast Ep 3 – Warrior Goddess Training with Heather Ash Amara

Podcast – http://www.blogtalkradio.com/shaktionfire

  • My experience doing Warrior Goddess Training with Heather Ash Amara
  • What does it mean to be the woman you were meant to be?
  • The ten lessons in Warrior Goddess Training
  • The power of sisterhood, having a community

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What’s Your Story Workshop based on Choice Theory and From Zero to Shakti

I cannot be more thrilled that my book was given a chance to have a smashing start. To be invited once again by Young Women Leadership Connection (YWLC) to do a talk for a women shelter is the most perfect beginning for my book.

One year ago, when I was invited to do a motivational talk for the same shelter, I was a brand new baby life coach. I was nervous about sharing my personal story and I did not know where to begin.

So I decided to share the three precious truths that I have learnt in my path to self-healing and empowerment. I had a powerpoint and a very able friend/trained counselor to back me up.

It was messy because of the various interpretations required due to language barrier. Otherwise,

it was a soulful success.

Everyone got something valuable out of our time together.

Fast forward one year later, same story. This time, backed up by Choice Theory, role plays preparation, another able assistant/trained Choice Theory practitioner and my book, From Zero to Shakti.

Wow, how things have changed.

Same story,

more powerful storytelling style.

We got off on a nice start, with everyone warming up at the self introduction segment. The atmosphere had a nose dive from the moment we showed the book video.

It was intentional.

This is not going to be a feel-good ra-ra talk. It was designed to be

a tough love, reality check workshop.

It was challenging, as we navigate through the emotional ups and downs of our audience.

But it worked. Sure, there were some tears, even mini breakdowns. But it was clear,

the message hit home.

All that was suppressed and hidden rose quickly to the surface.

To be healed and in time, addressed.

Based on the feedback we got and what was shared on the success board, there was no shadow of doubt, it was another impactful session. This year,

more potent than ever.

We left

with our hearts overflowing.

Proud of our work and most of all,

proud of the women who showed up and

showed their broken hearts to be healed.

Pure magic this morning.

FROM PARTICIPANTS IN THE WORKSHOP

From a thoughtful mother

From the youngest participant, a 15 years old who wrote,

‘Today I learnt to manage my emotions.’

FROM THE WOMEN FROM YOUNG WOMEN LEADERSHIP CONNECTION

I am grateful. For the work that I do. And I will do it more passionately from henceforth, for the priceless abundance I receive, every time I stepped into the arena. In the name of love.

  • Check out my book site here.
  • Check out Choice Talk, What’s Your Story? Workshop here.

~ Igniting Kick Ass Lives ~

Namaste,

Joy

 

Warrior Goddess Foundation in Singapore

You are whole.

You are powerful.

You are divine.

When you read these words do you feel the truth of them ringing in your bones?

Or do you feel the muffling weight of self-judgment and self-doubt, the deep-marrow fear of not being good enough, and the exhaustion of seeking your value outside of yourself?

If you don’t love and honor yourself with every fiber of your being, if you could use more joyful play and simple presence in your life, if you struggle with owning your power and passion, then it is time for an inner revolution.

It is time to claim your Warrior Goddess energy.

As women we are searching for a new freedom, the freedom from self-judgment, comparison, and struggle. The freedom from trying to take care of everyone else and forgetting ourselves in the process.

The freedom to be the women we are meant to be.


Imagine giving yourself this freedom: to be you, 100%, and to love all of you. Yes, you can learn to love and accept all of you.

Join in a dynamic, experiential class series where together we will create a new foundation for healing, power, and transformation.

In this four-part series you will learn how to:

  • Commit to yourself with compassion and humor
  • Unwind old agreements and beliefs that no longer serve you
  • Find your authentic expression
  • Walk with joy on your path of transformation, even when it is challenging

Joy is a certified Warrior Goddess Facilitator, trained by the author of Warrior Goddess Training and Warrior Goddess Way.

NOW WHAT?

  • Download two free chapters of Warrior Goddess Training here.
  • Sign up the next Warrior Goddess Foundation here.
  • Join our Shakti on Fire FB Group.
  • Read about Joy’s experience in her Warrior Goddess Training in Sedona here.
  • Get Joy’s book on Amazon Kindle, From Zero to Shakti, inspired by her Warrior Goddess trip.

P.S. ~ Get your free Step 1 of Let’s Step! Goal Setting Program and my latest kick ass updates here.​ ~

SAY YES TO 4 SESSIONS OF

WARRIOR GODDESS TRAINING HERE!

Namaste.
With all my Shakti love,

Joy

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AMAZON ALERT!

Check out my brand new book ‘From Zero to Shakti’
A woman’s search for rebirth and redemption.
Now available on Amazon Kindle!

Review on Amazon –

‘The author is very brave, disclosing her personal challenges and the solutions she created. I admire her unselfish sharing, and her courage in undertaking her personal quest.

She traveled a long distance to a special place, and even braved a fire walk–something difficult to imagine. She tells her story in an absorbing way. This book is charming.’

– Shearon B (Australia)

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*** Take the first step to your GOALS here!

P.S. Why did I describe my life as a blank canvas? Check out my 10mins podcast interview at The Tao of Confidence. 

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‘Empowering heart-centered women since 2005’

“I met Joy and was immediately struck by her vibrant energy.

She is a compassionate person with a quick mind, and I found her coaching to be skillful and intuitive.

If you ever need coaching, I would recommend you see her: not only will she help sort you out, she will be your cheerleader every step of the way!”
– Rimi Yoshida

Check out coaching with Joy.
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10% of my net profit goes to support For Our Children (FOC).

 

 

Body Mind Spirit (BMS) Coaching

Ever been to coaching and left feeling half complete? While the mind finds the conversation logical and your agreed tasks to be perfectly reasonable, your instinct finds that something is still…..

missing.

I have felt that way for a while now with some of my clients. While the go-getter needs only a little probing to get into action,

how many of us have motivation

on a daily basis on steroid mode?

Not many I would imagine.

Enters Body * Mind * Spirit (BMS) Coaching.

I believe that we are not just minds attached to bodies walking around on the earth. We have spirit, something that is potent, indestructible, infinitely us and always will be us in the absence of our bodies and/or minds.

The coaching that inspires me is the coaching that connects.

The coaching that connects our spirits with our minds.

And our bodies too.

Hence BMS coaching includes powerful elements to ensure that the coaching conversation do not just stay on the logical plane. It allows the mind to speak too

through intuition guided by meditation and visualization.

Elements from nature are included to assist you

to gain potent clarity and focus.

After achieving illuminating insights with your coaching and confirmation from your spirit, movement is brought in to

ground your intentions and insights

into your physical body.

After an empowering BMS coaching, you can then move forth

with power and wisdom

to manifest your intentions

into physical reality.

It’s time to live in body – mind – spirit alignment.

Let your alchemy begin.

 WHAT A SESSION CONSISTS OF –

  • In a salt lamp environment with crystals and pure essential oil diffuser
  • Safe space cleansed with sage beforehand
  • Fruit infused water as refreshment
  • Singing bowl and Tibetan bell initiation
  • Intuition card reading
  • Whole brain coaching with ICF Certified coach using art therapy and mindmap.
  • Chakra meditation with crystals
  • Affirmation with a crystal of your choice
  • Breathwork with mantra
  • Grounding with movement and visualization

 INVESTMENT

  • 2 hours Special rate $250 TILL 12th Mar (Usual $300)
  • For booking please email to me(at)joyleng(dot)com
  • Prepayment required to confirm booking.

Namaste.

With all my Shakti love,

Joy

P.S. ~ Get your free Step 1 of Let’s Step! Goal Setting Program and my latest kick ass updates here.​ ~

Namaste.
With all my Shakti love,

Joy

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AMAZON ALERT!

Check out my brand new book ‘From Zero to Shakti’
A woman’s search for rebirth and redemption.
Now available on Amazon Kindle!
Review on Amazon –
‘The author is very brave, disclosing her personal challenges and the solutions she created. I admire her unselfish sharing, and her courage in undertaking her personal quest.
She traveled a long distance to a special place, and even braved a fire walk–something difficult to imagine. She tells her story in an absorbing way. This book is charming.’

– Shearon B (Australia)
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

*** Take the first step to your GOALS here!

P.S. Why did I describe my life as a blank canvas? Check out my 10mins podcast interview at The Tao of Confidence. 

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‘Empowering heart-centered women since 2005’

“I met Joy and was immediately struck by her vibrant energy.

She is a compassionate person with a quick mind, and I found her coaching to be skillful and intuitive.

If you ever need coaching, I would recommend you see her: not only will she help sort you out, she will be your cheerleader every step of the way!”
– Rimi Yoshida

Check out coaching with Joy.
~~~~~~~~


P.S. Have you downloaded your FREE

Ready to serve if you
  • Desire momentum and accountability to achieve your life goals.
  • Want to take advantage of DiSC personality profiling to understand your/your team’s strengths and to maximize productivity and harmony.
  • Are looking for an inspiring storyteller sharing truths from real life experience..

Book a FREE 20 minutes Skype session at me (at) joyleng.com for

  • Yourself or
  • For someone you feel who is in need of an empowerment coach.

10% of my net profit goes to support For Our Children (FOC).

Shaktis on Fire (SOF) Vision

Coming from a family of sisters and watching the females head the extended family for three generations, it feels like natural destiny to be an empowerment coach for women.

The women who have undergone my training programs are called Shaktis on Fire (SOF). Shakti means goddess in Hindu and for reasons I have yet to comprehend, it is a word that I am very drawn to.

My burning vision

is the

empowerment of one million

Shaktis-on-Fire,

who have pledged to do

three million good deeds,

by my forty-eight birthday, making this an ambitious ten years mission!

This is a vision that truly sets my heart on fire.

Shakti on Fire Sparks (AIPP)

The four SOF sparks, which illuminates the heart of SOF training are

  1. Authenticity,

  2. Intuition,

  3. Pl@y! and

  4. Power.

The various programs focuses on training SOFs on one or more of the sparks. SOF will have to complete a program for each of the sparks.

Shakti on Fire Fulfillment

The four steps process of SOF fulfillment, in order of sequence, is

  1. Training,

  2. Commitment,

  3. Accountability and

  4. Achievement

    1. TRAINING

SOFs starts off by working on their own healing and empowerment, through courses made available online or by attending live workshops.

2. COMMITMENT

SOFs who wants to go beyond their own empowerment, to pay it forward, will sign the Shaktis-on-Fire (SOF) Empowerment Pledge.
They have declared to do three projects of their choice, to empower these 3 areas
1 ~ Family,
2 ~ Community,
3 ~ Humanity

3. ACCOUNTABILITY

SOFs will have an accountability partner, a fellow SOF, to ensure the completion of their three projects. They will declare their own deadlines.

4. ACHIEVEMENT

SOFs will announce the completion of their pledges and celebrate it in the Shaktis-on-Fire community and beyond.

One million Shaktis-on-Fire, three millions good deeds.

Are you one of us?

Dear fellow SOFs, I am so very proud of all of you.
Let’s continue to claim our natural birthright as Shaktis on Fire, and use our powerful flame to set the world ablaze with love, healing, wisdom, strength, courage and empowerment.

Time to fan the flames.

Find out about my story of healing and redemption in my book on Amazon, From Zero to Shakti, a woman’s search for rebirth and redemption.

For a free chapter giveaway, click here.

Namaste.

With all my Shakti love,

Joy

~ Igniting Shakits-on-Fire ~

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AMAZON ALERT!

Check out my brand new book ‘From Zero to Shakti’
A woman’s search for rebirth and redemption.
Now available on Amazon Kindle!
Review on Amazon –
‘The author is very brave, disclosing her personal challenges and the solutions she created. I admire her unselfish sharing, and her courage in undertaking her personal quest.
She traveled a long distance to a special place, and even braved a fire walk–something difficult to imagine. She tells her story in an absorbing way. This book is charming.’

– Shearon B (Australia)
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~


*** How often do you say yes when you meant no? Or say no when you meant yes? Take the free Authentic U Quiz to find out.

P.S. Check out my 17mins podcast interview too at Love Is A Verb. 

~~~~~~~

‘Empowering heart-centered women since 2005’

“I met Joy and was immediately struck by her vibrant energy.

She is a compassionate person with a quick mind, and I found her coaching to be skillful and intuitive.

If you ever need coaching, I would recommend you see her: not only will she help sort you out, she will be your cheerleader every step of the way!”
– Rimi Yoshida

Check out coaching with Joy.
~~~~~~~~


P.S. Have you downloaded your FREE

Ready to serve if you
  • Desire momentum and accountability to achieve your life goals.
  • Want to take advantage of DiSC personality profiling to understand your/your team’s strengths and to maximize productivity and harmony.
  • Are looking for an inspiring storyteller sharing truths from real life experience..

Book a FREE 20 minutes Skype session at me (at) joyleng.com for

  • Yourself or
  • For someone you feel who is in need of an empowerment coach.

10% of my net profit goes to support For Our Children (FOC).

Warrior Goddess Introductory Session

You are whole.

You are powerful.

You are divine.

  • When you read these words do you feel the truth of them ringing in your bones?
  • Or do you feel the muffling weight of self-judgment and self-doubt, the deep-marrow fear of not being good enough, and the exhaustion of seeking your value outside of yourself?

~ If you don’t love and honor yourself with every fiber of your being,

~ If you could use more joyful play and simple presence in your life,

~ If you struggle with owning your power and passion, then

it is time for an inner revolution.

Join Joy, a certified warrior goddess facilitator, trained by Heather Ash Amara, to learn how to ignite your Warrior Goddess energy using the Warrior Goddess Training.

Joy with Heather Ash Amara in Mago Retreat, Sedona

~ You are ALREADY whole and perfect. ~

You only need to release the negative energy that is making you believe otherwise.

~ Joy in Warrior Goddess Facilitator training in 2016 – http://www.joyleng.com/shakti-fire-sof-25-warrior-goddess-training-heather-ash/

~ The date for the next Warrior Goddess Introduction Session here.

~ Join our Shakti on Fire Meetup Group here.

~ Download two free chapters here.

Energy Exchange – $10 (cover refreshment and material cost)

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‘Goddess energy is our creative flow; unconditional love, pleasure, passion, wisdom. When we claim our goddess energy, we live in joyful self-acceptance, self-respect, and listen to our innermost being.’

– Heather Ash Amara, author of Warrior Goddess Training

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Here’s to your soul elevation!

​~ Get your free Step 1 of Let’s Step! Goal Setting Program and my latest kick ass updates here.​ ~
​With all my Shakti love.
Namaste,
Joy
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

AMAZON ALERT!

 

Check out my brand new book ‘From Zero to Shakti’
A woman’s path to self-healing and empowerment.
Now available on Amazon and www.fromzerotoshakti.joyleng.com
Review on Amazon –


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*** How often do you say yes when you meant no? Or say no when you meant yes? Take the free Authentic U Quiz to find out.

P.S. Check out my 17mins podcast interview too at Love Is A Verb. 

~~~~~~~

‘Empowering heart-centered women since 2005’

“I met Joy and was immediately struck by her vibrant energy.

She is a compassionate person with a quick mind, and I found her coaching to be skillful and intuitive.

If you ever need coaching, I would recommend you see her: not only will she help sort you out, she will be your cheerleader every step of the way!”
– Rimi Yoshida

Check out coaching with Joy.
~~~~~~~~

 

Interview 7 – The Tao of Confidence

An unexpected reward of my rebirth trip, was me, fulfilling my childhood dream, of being an author. I wrote about my adventures in my rebirth journey in a book. ‘From Zero to Shakti’, a woman’s search for rebirth and redemption, is now available on Amazon.

Find out more here!

Here’s to your soul elevation!

With all my Shakti love.
Namaste,
Joy
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

AMAZON ALERT!

Check out my brand new book ‘From Zero to Shakti’
A woman’s search for rebirth and redemption.
Now available on Amazon Kindle!
Review on Amazon –
‘The author is very brave, disclosing her personal challenges and the solutions she created. I admire her unselfish sharing, and her courage in undertaking her personal quest.
She traveled a long distance to a special place, and even braved a fire walk–something difficult to imagine. She tells her story in an absorbing way. This book is charming.’

– Shearon B (Australia)
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

*** How often do you say yes when you meant no? Or say no when you meant yes? Take the free Authentic U Quiz to find out.

P.S. Check out my 17mins podcast interview too at Love Is A Verb. 

~~~~~~~

‘Empowering heart-centered women since 2005’

“I met Joy and was immediately struck by her vibrant energy.

She is a compassionate person with a quick mind, and I found her coaching to be skillful and intuitive.

If you ever need coaching, I would recommend you see her: not only will she help sort you out, she will be your cheerleader every step of the way!”
– Rimi Yoshida

Check out coaching with Joy.
~~~~~~~~


P.S. Have you downloaded your FREE

Ready to serve if you
  • Desire momentum and accountability to achieve your life goals.
  • Want to take advantage of DiSC personality profiling to understand your/your team’s strengths and to maximize productivity and harmony.
  • Are looking for an inspiring storyteller sharing truths from real life experience..

Book a FREE 20 minutes Skype session at me (at) joyleng.com for

  • Yourself or
  • For someone you feel who is in need of an empowerment coach.

10% of my net profit goes to support For Our Children (FOC).

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Kick Ass 12- Mistakes are Diamonds in the Rough

Last week I took part in a Bachata bootcamp in the Singapore International Latin Festival. The catch here was that we had to perform after the bootcamp.

That was scary

but I thought it would be a good push factor.

I was looking forward to the bootcamp because I have loved this dance form for a long time now and

I have finally took the leap of courage

to learn it properly. I went to the first training session, eager to absorb whatever techniques the instructors were going to teach.

Strange enough, we went straight into learning the performance choreography right after our warm up. I was confused. Slowly but surely, the truth crept up on me. It hit me like a ton of bricks. There was no teaching in the bootcamp. It was strictly only preparation for the performance.

My blood went cold.

My second confusion was regarding the standard of the dance steps. These were not beginner’s steps. There was no way a beginner will be able to cope with it. In fact, one husband and wife couple backed out immediately on the first day.

The second truth dawned on me. This was NOT a beginner’s bootcamp. Oh. My. Goddess.

What have I done?!

I did my best to stay calm and tried desperately to remember the steps. The song was fast and the steps were never repeated. It was a serious dance item.

We learnt half the song in our first session. We only had three sessions with our instructors and then its performance time.

Sheer insanity had just invaded my life.

We had three hours in the first session to learn half the song, two hours next to learn the second half, followed by one hour of stage rehearsal. And then it’s showtime.

I am no longer sure what to do with myself.

I stumbled home on the first night. Physically exhausted, brain dead and still in a state of shock. I was trying to process what had just transpired.

This, was a very bad mistake.

How am I ever going to survive this?

I felt so tortured in my mind, swinging back and fro, as to whether I have what it takes to do this. To perform a dance item, which was above my current abilities, in front of mostly trained eyes in latin dance, was not something I was relishing to do.

But here I am in this bootcamp. In fact, the countdown had started ticking.

How am I going to rectify this mistake?

With fear and doubt in my heart, I planned a strategy.

I was going to look at the instructional video for the next few days, right before I sleep and first thing in the morning when I wake.

Also, I am going to practise for an hour by myself everyday before I go for group practice. That’s a total of three hours private practice. Not a lot but

hopefully it can make a difference.

I stuck very closely to that strategy. It was still a tedious, uphill task. My body was not used to this dance form at all and some parts of the choreography are very similar. I had to make sure I don’t get confused.

But I was confused.

Constantly.

During the final rehearsal, it was decided that my partner and I would be standing in the front line.

The stakes just kept piling up!

I felt slightly better with every training session, but never better enough to feel that I have nailed it. On top of it, I was going for workshops, that were conducted in the latin festival. It was exhausting. My feet hurt and my big toes threatened to fall off.

During the final stage rehearsal, I learnt that I was doing one of the turns the wrong way. Oh. My. Goddess. It was going to be very obvious if I don’t turn the same way with the rest, especially with me standing in front. My body does not remember it that way. I just somehow have to remember it.

I will and I must!

Worried and panicky, I rushed home to take a shower and rushed back to do my make up and hair. We were the second item for the night, we did not have much time at all.

In the back stage, looking out to the audience,

my stomach felt like it had been stabbed.

This is it Joy. This is it.

Come what may. And it came. It wasn’t the best performance of my life. I forgot some small parts but it wouldn’t be obvious unless you are a Bachata dancer yourself. I clearly had no sense of the dance form. I never did.

But I did it.

It was done.

As we walked off the stage, my tears welled up quickly. The sheer pressure from the last few days had manifested itself in my eyes. Oh. My. Goddess. For whatever it was worth, I did it.

I did it! I survived it!

I went from considering this bootcamp

a terrible mistake to thinking how wonderful it is,

that I had no clue that this is not a beginner’s bootcamp when I signed up. That was the only way I would be willing to sign up!

I felt like a stone being refined by the fire. It had been so painful but

I came out sparkling and proud,

like a diamond in the rough.

I don’t feel the same. I am not the same.

I made a mistake and

I glowed as a result of it.

Today, I am walking around as a fuller version of myself, humbled and inspired by myself. I was reminded of how much potential I had when I am

willing to get very uncomfortable and

out of my comfort zone.

What have you been waiting to do but have always made excuses?

Nothing is a guarantee. But nothing happens if you don’t take take that leap of faith. I am not saying that it is going to be easy, but it is going to be so worth it.

Don’t be afraid of mistakes, they are your allies.

With your faith and perseverance, they will help you to shine like diamonds in the sky.

Dear diamond in the rough,

it’s time to walk into the refining fire.

See you in the sky.

~ Get your free Step 1 of Let’s Step! Goal Setting Program and my latest kick ass updates here.​ ~

Your Kick Ass Coach,

Joy

Here’s to your soul elevation!

Thanks for reading.​

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AMAZON ALERT!


Check out my brand new book ‘From Zero to Shakti’
A woman’s search for rebirth and redemption.
Now available on Amazon Kindle!
Review on Amazon –
‘The author is very brave, disclosing her personal challenges and the solutions she created. I admire her unselfish sharing, and her courage in undertaking her personal quest.
She traveled a long distance to a special place, and even braved a fire walk–something difficult to imagine. She tells her story in an absorbing way. This book is charming.’

– Shearon B (Australia)
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~


*** How often do you say yes when you meant no? Or say no when you meant yes? Take the free Authentic U Quiz to find out.

P.S. Check out my 17mins podcast interview too at Love Is A Verb. 

Your Transformational Coach,

Joy Leng

~~~~~~~

‘Empowering heart-centered women since 2005’

“I met Joy and was immediately struck by her vibrant energy.

She is a compassionate person with a quick mind, and I found her coaching to be skillful and intuitive.

If you ever need coaching, I would recommend you see her: not only will she help sort you out, she will be your cheerleader every step of the way!”
– Rimi Yoshida

Check out coaching with Joy.

 

~~~~~~~~


P.S. Have you downloaded your FREE

Ready to serve if you
  • Desire momentum and accountability to achieve your life goals.
  • Want to take advantage of DiSC personality profiling to understand your/your team’s strengths and to maximize productivity and harmony.
  • Are looking for an inspiring storyteller sharing truths from real life experience..

Book a FREE 20 minutes Skype session at me (at) joyleng.com for

  • Yourself or
  • For someone you feel who is in need of an empowerment coach.

10% of my net profit goes to support For Our Children (FOC).

Shakti on Fire (SOF) 32 – Beginnings and Endings

We have learnt to enjoy associate beginnings with positivity and endings with negativity. And yet,

how can anything ever begin

if something doesn’t end?

And on most parts, with the endings, new beginnings become a possibility.

Then

how is it that we pick and choose

which side of the coin we love and

which side we choose to hate?

Aren’t we such curious creatures?

  • How do you usually feel about an impending holiday?
  • Filled with anticipation I presume?
  • And what about the last day of the holiday?
  • Full of dread perhaps?

I sometimes feel the same. Until it occurred to me, that I am willingly, subjecting myself, to unnecessary suffering, over and over again.

What if we learn to love beginnings AND endings?

How would life be like? Is that even possible?

We are going against the grain! Admittedly, it takes some getting used to. But it is most certainly a very attractive possibility. But it takes conscious effort.

Even in my last inauthentic relationship, I dreaded the ending. I did not want it to end. We have often heard of people in abusive relationships, who refuse to walk away. They probably have a dread too, for endings. Even if they have been unjustly treated.

Endings are …. Scarier.

I even feared the beginning too.

When I finally walked out of the relationship, dear goddess me,

where do I go from here?

The future looks like a scary monster, waiting to snare its ugly fangs.

But was it true?

I went on to have a very meaningful and productive year. It wasn’t true at all.

When I was in primary school and it was the end of my final year, I was thoroughly petrified of leaving the school, to move on to my new secondary school.

I was terrified of the unknown.

While I did not really have friends in primary school,

I would rather continue a suffering but familiar life, rather than a new possibility at happiness.

Enough terror at the unknown to promptly marched to the principal’s office and begged to be retained one more year in my primary school. Just a little longer. I did not want my well-earned ending.

It was… too scary.

During my warrior goddess training in Sedona, I felt that familiar spike of fear once more. On the verge of walking on the firewalk in Sedona, with the intention of rebirth, my body recoiled violently and my mind screamed,

‘No!

We have been living this shame-filled and unworthy life very comfortably,

why end what’s comfortable?!

Don’t!’

 

Ending a victim-hood life was scarier than the firewalk itself. I walked. Three times.

The end.

Hello new Joy.

  • Where in your life have you been dreading beginnings and endings?
  • What if we remember the goddess that we are, and we can learn to embrace the unknown?
  • What if all the fears you hold so tightly in your mind will come to naught?
  • Or better yet, what if whatever fears came to pass and you quickly and naturally, found the inner resources to solve and to conquer?
  • What if you are a lover of beginnings and endings?

May your due endings … end and

your due beginnings …. begin.

With all my Shakti love,

Namaste.

Here’s to your soul elevation!

~ Get your free Step 1 of Let’s Step! Goal Setting Program and my latest kick ass updates here.​ ~

Thanks for reading.​

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~


AMAZON ALERT!


Check out my brand new book ‘From Zero to Shakti’
A woman’s search for rebirth and redemption.
Now available on Amazon Kindle!
Review on Amazon –
‘The author is very brave, disclosing her personal challenges and the solutions she created. I admire her unselfish sharing, and her courage in undertaking her personal quest.
She traveled a long distance to a special place, and even braved a fire walk–something difficult to imagine. She tells her story in an absorbing way. This book is charming.’

– Shearon B (Australia)
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*** How often do you say yes when you meant no? Or say no when you meant yes? Take the free Authentic U Quiz to find out.

P.S. Check out my 17mins podcast interview too at Love Is A Verb. 

Your Transformational Coach,

Joy Leng

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‘Empowering heart-centered women since 2005’

“I met Joy and was immediately struck by her vibrant energy.

She is a compassionate person with a quick mind, and I found her coaching to be skillful and intuitive.

If you ever need coaching, I would recommend you see her: not only will she help sort you out, she will be your cheerleader every step of the way!”
– Rimi Yoshida

Check out coaching with Joy.

 

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P.S. Have you downloaded your FREE

Ready to serve if you
  • Desire momentum and accountability to achieve your life goals.
  • Want to take advantage of DiSC personality profiling to understand your/your team’s strengths and to maximize productivity and harmony.
  • Are looking for an inspiring storyteller sharing truths from real life experience..

Book a FREE 20 minutes Skype session at me (at) joyleng.com for

  • Yourself or
  • For someone you feel who is in need of an empowerment coach.

10% of my net profit goes to support For Our Children (FOC).

Shakti on Fire (SOF) 31 – Stay Wild

Here’s to your soul elevation!

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Check out my brand new book ‘From Zero to Shakti’
A woman’s search for rebirth and redemption.
Now available on Amazon Kindle!
Review on Amazon –
‘The author is very brave, disclosing her personal challenges and the solutions she created. I admire her unselfish sharing, and her courage in undertaking her personal quest.
She traveled a long distance to a special place, and even braved a fire walk–something difficult to imagine. She tells her story in an absorbing way. This book is charming.’

– Shearon B (Australia)
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~


*** How often do you say yes when you meant no? Or say no when you meant yes? Take the free Authentic U Quiz to find out.

P.S. Check out my 17mins podcast interview too at Love Is A Verb. 

Your Transformational Coach,

Joy Leng

~~~~~~~

‘Empowering heart-centered women since 2005’

“I met Joy and was immediately struck by her vibrant energy.

She is a compassionate person with a quick mind, and I found her coaching to be skillful and intuitive.

If you ever need coaching, I would recommend you see her: not only will she help sort you out, she will be your cheerleader every step of the way!”
– Rimi Yoshida

Check out coaching with Joy.

 

~~~~~~~~


P.S. Have you downloaded your FREE

Ready to serve if you
  • Desire momentum and accountability to achieve your life goals.
  • Want to take advantage of DiSC personality profiling to understand your/your team’s strengths and to maximize productivity and harmony.
  • Are looking for an inspiring storyteller sharing truths from real life experience..

Book a FREE 20 minutes Skype session at me (at) joyleng.com for

  • Yourself or
  • For someone you feel who is in need of an empowerment coach.

10% of my net profit goes to support For Our Children (FOC).