E-motion The Movie

If your subconscious mind
is 1000 times more powerful
than the conscious mind,
what controls it?

I thoroughly enjoyed watching E-motion. Apparently, there is a 2014 version. And this is a summary description on IMDb,

E-Motion is a factual documentary that explores how human emotions affect the physiology of the human body and how once negative emotions are replaced with positive emotions bona fide physical changes occur. A team of emotion experts from around the world share their wisdom and negative emotion clearing methods to show humanity the path to health and enlightenment.

The amazing accolades collected by the 2014 version is impressive.

  • Official Selection ILLUMINATE Film Festival 2014
  • Official Selection AWARENESS Cinema Festival 2014
  • Winner Golden Award WORLD FILM AWARDS 2014
  • Official Selection ASHEVILLE Film Festival 2014
  • Official Selection MONARCH Film Festival 2014

It has been inspiring and thought-provoking for me. It is such a joy to share the precious gems in it with you. I know you are busy so here you have it in a easy to read format. Do read it mindfully! 🙂

Featuring

HIGHLIGHTS

  • When we don’t work through our stuff, it manifests as diseases.
  • Every dis-ease that we experience are emotions, memories that are buried in our subconscious, that’s been triggered.
  • All organisms in nature are designed for short term stress, except for humans. We have the capacity to recall memories for a long time and stressing our system all over again when we do that.
  • The protective mechanism in our mind suppress these memories and feelings, not just in our minds, but also in our bodies. The evidence is muscular tension.
  • The human body is really nothing but energy zipping around in the speed of light.
  • Emotions means energy in motion. It’s our thoughts that create our emotions. And our emotions create our behavior.
  • When you hear people telling the same story over and over again, they are really suffering in their story.
  • We have been taught to resist the things that don’t feel good, instead of feeling the things that don’t feel good.
  • We look outside for answers. But the answers are inside because our feelings are inside of us.
  • 9% of our energy is used to suppress energy from our past.
  • Your biology is your biography.
  • Symptoms are the body crying out, telling us that there is something wrong there.
  • We are not made wrong. We are not broken. We are not missing anything.
  • If we allow the emotions to last for hours or days, it’s called the mood. If we keep allowing the same emotions to last for weeks or months, it’s called the temperament. If we keep at it for months or years, its called a personality trait.
  • So often people think that they have forgiven somebody, but they haven’t. Because their bodies are expressing the unforgiveness.
  • Being willing to be vulnerable and feeling again, is the first step to healing and finding our joy.
  • The placebo effect is proving that the mind can heal itself, despite of the sugar pill or the fake operation.
  • The subconscious mind acts as a broadcasting signal.
  • True transformations comes when we break free from the chains of the emotional addiction. The side effect of true transformation is called joy.
  • The emotional patterns we carry in our subconscious mind influence our relationship with money, and our relationship with each other.
  • The subconscious is a holographic archive of your existence, of every moment of your life.
  • The same emotions that is going on outside of you is also going on, inside of you. The blood is pumping these chemicals; of frustration, of jealousy, and of anxiety.
  • Our cells have these protein receptors site that binds these molecules of emotions. The amazing thing about these receptors, is that it is the same receptors that binds heroine. So guess what? We are addicted to our emotions.
  • We can take one energy of any type, and transform it into another energy.
  • The Ho’Oponopono Process:
    1 – I am sorry.
    2- Please forgive me.
    3 – Thank you.
    4- I love you.
  • If I wasn’t afraid, I would …
  • It is not fear that keeps us trapped. It is hiding from fear.
  • The biggest cloud to our perception is fear.
  • We move from the selfish state, which is driven by hormones and stress, to the selfless state, where we really want to contribute, and to make a difference.

It will be a nicer experience for you to watch the actual movie, so if you like, you can check out E-motion documentary here or the 2014 version in IMdb.

This movie has been heartening for me, given that I am also starting to place more emphasis in the healing aspect of my work as well.

As a newly certified Aroma Freedom Technique (AFT) facilitator who can use the AFT process to help clients clear blocked feelings, emotions and memories from the past, you can imagine how in sync I felt with the movie.

Let’s all do the work. Allow yourself to feel your emotions again.

QUICK EXERCISE

For the next 7 days, for at least once a day, pause for a moment and ask yourself.

1. How do I feel right now? (One word, feeling word)

2. What do I need right now? What can I give to myself right now?

3. If you can, record/journal it.

4. Review your journal at the end of the week.
It will be interesting to see what new insights you get at the end of it.

5. Share your insights with me with you like! 🙂

6. Share this post with someone else and encourage them to do the exercise.

If you struggle to identify your feelings, trust me, it is very normal. And you can use the emotion wheel to help you. So hey, be patient and be kind to yourself in the process. 🙂

Let the healing begin.

FREE RESOURCES

As starters, here are some free resources.

Firstly, go to www.shaktionfire.com where there are many complimentary healing and empowering tools ready for your easy download. ALL episodes come with at least ONE free gift. 🙂

I especially recommend these episodes –

  1. Emotion Body Code with Rimi Yoshida
  2. Ayurveda with Dr Jyoti
  3. EFT Tapping with Brad Yates
  4. Aroma Freedom Technique (AFT)

Lots of good stuff there for you to check out.

OR

  • here is a quick link for you to download a
    free audio
    that walks you through the 12 Steps of Aroma Freedom Technique that you can do on yourself and
  • a Negative Thought Plots exercise based on Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT). After all, as was mentioned in E-motion movie, it is our thoughts that causes our emotions.

Whatever it is, start small,
do something.

Download the free AFT audio here.

*** If you would like to book for a coaching / counseling / Aroma Freedom Technique session with me, here is the link.

Namaste.

Story SMASHer,

Joy

~ Nurturing Resilience, Vitality and Self-love in Women ~

What can Narrative Therapy do for me?

We have all heard of the rather controversial hypnotherapy, and perhaps even the very successful cognitive behavior therapy. Even arts and movement therapy.

But narrative therapy?

What could that be?

Therapy revolving around stories?

If that was your thought process, you are absolutely right on the mark! 🙂 Narrative Therapy was developed during the 1970s and 1980s, by Australian social worker Michael White and David Epston of New Zealand.

According to Alice Morgan’s influential and highly popular text, What is narrative therapy? An easy-to-read introduction, Narrative Therapy can be about one of the following:

  • Particular ways of understanding people’s identities.
  • Certain ways of understanding problems and their effects on people’s lives.
  • Particular ways of talking with people about their lives and problems they may be experiencing, or
  • Particular ways of understanding therapeutic relationships and the ethics or politics of therapy.

The goal of narrative therapy Narrative Therapy is to be a

respectful, non-blaming approach

to counselling and community work, which centres

people as the experts in their own lives.

PRINCIPLES AND ASSUMPTIONS

1. EXTERNALIZATION

“In narrative treatment, problems are considered to be outside forces
that enter people’s lives and rewrite the basic text of who they are. ”

– Paquin, 2009:92

The beauty of externalization is that

  • it creates space for people to be able to explore new and different perspective on the issue.
  • Without the ‘blame’ conversation, it helps to ease the conflict in interpersonal relationships, in families and in the communities.
  • it avoids the problem of clients personalizing the problem, creating serious disempowering self identities and self esteem.
  • it enables a real conversation ABOUT the problem, rather than from a crippling ‘I’ perspective.

2. MULTI-STORIED LIVES

Stories are how we relate to one another, and how we create meaning for our lives. It is rich with information of the wide and varied lived experiences of our lives.

Just like we can define our main life story revolving around the fact that we were given up by our parents and adopted and therefore, a worthless individual. We can also frame our dominant story as one who rose from rags to riches, and hence a determined and successful individual .

Micheal White and David Epston (1990) explored the idea of a multi-storied version of life. That enables flexibility in the interpretations of what a person might be and defied a singular definition of a person.

3. YOU ARE THE EXPERT OF YOUR LIFE

Your narrative therapist/coach will approach your sessions with the belief that

you are the expert of your life.

Not them.

You are already skillful and competent in resolving your issues.

You inherently possess the necessary values, beliefs, skills, knowledge and abilities to manage your challenges. Your narrative therapist/coach is a non-judgmental collaborator who helps you address the problem, and to co-author a more nurturing story.

Narrative Therapy guides a person to

  • Identify their values,
  • Identify the skills, knowledge and abilities (unique qualities) that they have displayed in the past or current when undergoing hardship
  • Investigate the history of the unique qualities
  • Challenge the current dominant discourse (problem story) that is destructive
  • Co-author a more nurturing discourse to replace the problem story.

There is so much power and liberation from re-writing a disempowering stories. You will see how I rewrote my story and my sense of identity in my autobiography book, From Zero to Shakti. The title of the book says it all. 🙂

I have also experienced the power of re-authoring using Narrative Therapy and many other modalities. But

the commitment to stay
the course is vital.

Re-authoring your story also means that first and foremost, we need to discover what is the dominant story that you have been living with. While it is very apparent for some people, it is not so for others.

It is so deeply ingrained in the unconscious mind, some people have absolutely no clue.

It doesn’t matter which category you belong to,

what matters is that you begin.

That is why I created the Story SMASH!er Coaching Program that using Narrative Therapy, Aroma Freedom Technique, Cognitive Behavior Therapy, mindfulness and a whole lot of other good stuff to give you an all-rounded support in this exciting re-authoring journey. It will radically transform your life.

If you are feeling something inside, that is prompting you to experiment with Narrative Therapy, then

grab the free
Life Story Plot exercise.

It will give you a first hand taste of how NT can powerfully help you to wear a more empowering lens in life, and to reset how you feel about yourself.

Remember,

you are the light.
Seek it from within.

Be well dear one, please take a look at the Story SMASH!er Program or even the 14 Days Aroma Freedom Technique Challenge, if you want to do inner work together with pure essentials oil.

And of course, I’m here for you for coaching/therapy as always.

Be kind to yourself.

Grab your free Life Story Plot exercise here.

*** If you would like to book for a coaching / counseling / Aroma Freedom Technique session with me, here is the link.

Namaste.

Story SMASHer,

Joy

~ Nurturing Resilience, Vitality and Self-love in Women ~

 

 

Shakti on Fire Free Coaching 4 Parts Series

Shakti on Fire Sparks 4 Parts Series

The objective of this free coaching series is to give you a taster of how Ignite! Shakti Training (IST) will be like. You have a choice

  • To go straight into IST or
  • To start off first with this free coaching and continue your journey with IST.

Either way, just get started! 🙂

Hopefully after your training, you will also feel inspired to be a part of the 1 million Shaktis, 3 million Sparks vision.

It simply means taking the Shakti on Fire Empowerment Pledge to do three empowerment projects of your choice for family, community and humanity. 🙂

HOW DOES IT WORK?

  1. This free coaching series consists of 4 action books related to the four sparks of Shakti on Fire training, which is
  • Authenticity
  • Intuition
  • Pl@y! and
  • Power

The accompanying podcast episodes guide you through the action books and the main concepts in it. And of course, if you want private coaching through the process, or to add other healing and therapeutic processes to it, such as Aroma Freedom Technique (AFT), that is available too.

Ultimately it is up to you how far, and how thorough you want to dive into your Shakti journey.

Grab your free coaching series here.

I will be here cheering you on,

every step of the way. 🙂

SO,

Have you listened to all the episodes and grab your action books yet?

This free coaching series is my gift of love to you.

This is my way of

honouring the Shakti

that you truly are.

Grab your free coaching series here.

Take my guiding hand and let’s get you started on your way back home, to the Divine Feminine within.

Grab your free coaching series here.

Honoured to be part of your soul-volution.

With all my blessings and love,

Namaste my dear Shakti.

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That will mean a lot to me.

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Shakti Ablaze – Coaching for Women

‘Empowering heart-centered women since 2005’

~ Igniting Shaktis on Fire ~

BRAVO!

Welcome my brave Shakti.

Shakti means goddess in Hindu and it symbolizes power.

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I am so thrilled that you are here, ready to spread your glorious wings and fly!

That means you are thinking of

  • Igniting your Shakti on Fire,

  • Activating your natural gifts as a woman and

  • Reclaiming the kick ass life you are destined for.

Hell yeah!

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“Joy helped me to become a more confident person.
She also equips me with the required skills
and support to achieve my desired outcomes.
She is genuinely concerned and interested in her clients
and definitely goes the extra mile to support them.”
– Trina Wong
(April 2016)

If you believe

  • You are more than just your mind, or your body
  • You can do more with the natural intuition you are born with as a woman
  • You can have more joy and PL@Y! in your life
  • You can manifest your true power by owning your authentic self

It’s playtime! 🙂

For SHAKTI ABLAZE, you will get –

– 1 1.5hrs coaching session

– Free copy of my latest book, From Zero to Shakti (eBook)

– Free 7 Days Self Compassion Challenge (eCourse format

– DiSC Psychometric Profiling and Debrief at half price
(Not included in package price, retailing at US$120)

COACHING PACKAGES

Check out all the coaching packages here –

SHAKTI BABY

SHAKTI ABLAZE

KICK ASS SHAKTI

NO. OF SESSIONS 1 (1.5hrs) 12 (1.5hrs) 12 (1.5hours) AND
SPECIALS 1 Kick Ass Jumpstart Session (1.5hrs)
6 Weekly Check In Calls (20mins)
BONUSES
– FROM ZERO TO SHAKTI EBOOK (US$4.99)
– 7 DAYS SELF COMPASSION CHALLENGE (US$25)
– DiSC PROFILING/DEBRIEF (US$120)
– LET’S STEP! GOAL SETTING PROGRAM (US$99)
HALF PRICE DiSC PROFILING FOR YOU
HALF PRICE DiSC PROFILING FOR ANOTHER PERSON
FREE 20 MINS COACHING FOR ANOTHER PERSON
VALID FOR 9 MONTHS 9 MONTHS 9 MONTHS
INVESTMENT (US$) 140 1,440 1,745

Note –

  1. These sessions can be conducted via Skype, Facetime or face to face in Singapore.
  2. If you want to do a package (Shakti Ablaze / Kick Ass Shakti) after you finished your Shakti Baby session, you have a top up option for 7 days. 🙂
  3. You can purchase it as a gift for someone.
  4. All packages are valid for 9 months from the date of purchase.

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“My dearest Joy,
thank you for making me into a beautiful phoenix
when I most needed a change.
You are one of the most amazing woman I know
who would want to make another woman feel empowered and beautiful
regardless of age or size.

– Charlotte Lee (May 2013)

READY TO GET YOUR SHAKTI ABLAZE?

OUR COACHING PROCESS

CLEAR —> CLARIFY –> CELEBRATE!

1. CLEAR

First, we clear the blockages trapped in your body, your mind, your spirit and in your energy force (‘qi’). No amount of planning serves any purpose if you do not first clear the obstacles in your way.

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2. CLARIFY

  • Next, we clarify and confirm your intentions.
  • We also examine what self limiting beliefs you might have that is hindering you or what ‘masks’ that you have been wearing to protect yourself.
  • Then we explore what options are available for you
  • To expend your focused effort
  • For the best possibility to reach your desired outcomes.

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3. CELEBRATE!

Having cleared your path, declared your intention and established the right course of action for your goals, it is time to celebrate and express your victorious path with your beautiful goddess body.

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“Joy has helped me to build my confidence.
She brings out the unexplored outer beauty in me
and urges me to seek my inner beauty within.

– Christine Lim
(March 2012)

BOOK YOUR PACKAGE HERE

EACH SESSION CONSISTS OF

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1. BREATH WORK/MEDITATION/INTENTION SETTING

Using breathwork to ground you into the present before we start our session together.

Using meditation to channel your focus into the intention for the coaching session.

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2. MIND MAP COACHING (WHOLE BRAIN CONVERSATION)


Using my training from my psychology degree and as an International Coach Federation coach,

We will have a fun, yet meaning session

Using colours and our conversation,

To create a masterpiece of our conversation

We will focus on –

  • The goal for our coaching time together ,
  • Challenge your thought processes and
  • Clarify your highest values
  • Establish what action needs to be taken
  • Propel you towards your desired outcomes.

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3. MOVEMENT GROUNDING

Being one of the first to start a pole dancing studio in Singapore in 2005, I have seen and experienced personally, the power of movement as a potent self-revitalizing tool.

While intellectually, you may have engaged in the conversation, and logically came to your conclusions, these precious insights are not grounded in your body .
Mentally you ‘get’ it, but your body don’t.

Ever ‘understood’ something and yet, did not feel it or lost motivation for it afterwards?

Hence, we need to involve your physical being, into the coaching conversation.

This ensures that the insights, the commitment and the inspired action are now in complete alignment with your entire being.

That’s when true personal Shakti happens.

We will use your natural movement

  • To celebrate the awakening of your Shakti-self and
  • To ensure that what you have explored during the coaching session is also acknowledged and affirmed by your body.
  • To cements your body*mind*spirit alignment to your goals.

P.s. NO dancing experienced required. Your body will surprise you how it comes alive. Stay receptive. 🙂

“I was immediately struck by Joy’s vibrant energy.
She is a compassionate person with a quick mind,
and I found her coaching to be skillful and intuitive.

If you ever need coaching, I would recommend her:
not only will she help sort you out,
she will be your cheerleader every step of the way!”

– Rimi Yoshida
(March 2016)

GRAB YOUR PACKAGE HERE!

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Shakti on Fire (SOF) – Radical Sacred Life Summit

When was the last time you felt TOTALLY in sync with your
– Intuition,
– Love,
– Sensuality and
– Sense of peace?

Have you been betrayed, feel lost or anxious?

Are you ready for some “taboo topic” talk?

You might be feeling unloved, broken or stuck, right this very moment.

You probably have experienced life transitions and situations that have weighed on you.


When was the last time you put YOU FIRST

and really took care of

your body, mind and spirit like THIS?

I can help, and I’m not alone. I’ve just joined up with a team of experts and we are going to make a difference.

I was recently called to be on an event with world-wide reach; with over a dozen incredible life-thinkers and problem solvers who’ve come together at the request of my friend Michele Paiva, a licensed psychotherapist and coach who has taught and guided hundreds people on every continent.

Catch me on Day 4 as I speak about women empowerment and how you can use inspired action to bring life to the next level.
Join us!
http://www.michelepaiva.com/Joy

The Radical Sacred Life Summit: Awaken Intuition, Experience Love, Stop Anxiety
http://www.michelepaiva.com/Joy

Begins April 30th (totally FREE ~with Certificate of Ascension Option!)
Click here to get connected to your truth again!
http://www.michelepaiva.com/Joy

Namaste.
With all my Shakti love,

Joy
~ Igniting Kick Ass Lives ~

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AMAZON ALERT!

Check out my brand new book ‘From Zero to Shakti’
A woman’s search for rebirth and redemption.
Now available on Amazon Kindle!
Review on Amazon –
‘The author is very brave, disclosing her personal challenges and the solutions she created. I admire her unselfish sharing, and her courage in undertaking her personal quest.
She traveled a long distance to a special place, and even braved a fire walk–something difficult to imagine. She tells her story in an absorbing way. This book is charming.’

– Shearon B (Australia)
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*** Take the first step to your GOALS here!

P.S. Why did I describe my life as a blank canvas? Check out my 10mins podcast interview at The Tao of Confidence. 

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‘Empowering heart-centered women since 2005’

“I met Joy and was immediately struck by her vibrant energy.

She is a compassionate person with a quick mind, and I found her coaching to be skillful and intuitive.

If you ever need coaching, I would recommend you see her: not only will she help sort you out, she will be your cheerleader every step of the way!”
– Rimi Yoshida

Check out coaching with Joy.
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10% of my net profit goes to support For Our Children (FOC).

Free Chapter Giveaway of From Zero to Shakti on Amazon

An inspiring story of a woman’s path to self-healing and empowerment. It depicts her determination to release the limiting stories that held her hostage ever since she was a child.

You will be riveted by the whirlwinds of trials and tribulations she had to wrestled with, as she go half across the world on her own to reclaim her own soul.

Experience her moments of terror as she desperately circumvent one crisis after another.

Indulge in her waves of joy as she unpeels layer after layer of her shame, her pain and her inauthenticity.

Join her in her triumph from Zero to Shakti as she blaze her way through rebirth and redemption, in a consummation of a firewalk in the desert.

Foreword by Dr Mel Gill, bestselling author of The Meta Secret

     

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Grab a free Chapter Giveaway of my book on Amazon, ‘From Zero to Shakti’.

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Buy ‘From Zero to Shakti’ here.

P.S. ~ Get your free Step 1 of Let’s Step! Goal Setting Program and my latest kick ass updates here.​ ~

Namaste.
With all my Shakti love,

Joy

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Grab your copy here!
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*** Take the first step to your GOALS here!

P.S. Why did I describe my life as a blank canvas? Check out my 10mins REBIRTH podcast interview at The Tao of Confidence. 

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‘Empowering heart-centered women since 2005’

“I met Joy and was immediately struck by her vibrant energy.

She is a compassionate person with a quick mind, and I found her coaching to be skillful and intuitive.

If you ever need coaching, I would recommend you see her: not only will she help sort you out, she will be your cheerleader every step of the way!”
– Rimi Yoshida

Check out coaching with Joy.
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10% of my net profit goes to support For Our Children (FOC).

Body Mind Spirit (BMS) Coaching

Ever been to coaching and left feeling half complete? While the mind finds the conversation logical and your agreed tasks to be perfectly reasonable, your instinct finds that something is still…..

missing.

I have felt that way for a while now with some of my clients. While the go-getter needs only a little probing to get into action,

how many of us have motivation

on a daily basis on steroid mode?

Not many I would imagine.

Enters Body * Mind * Spirit (BMS) Coaching.

I believe that we are not just minds attached to bodies walking around on the earth. We have spirit, something that is potent, indestructible, infinitely us and always will be us in the absence of our bodies and/or minds.

The coaching that inspires me is the coaching that connects.

The coaching that connects our spirits with our minds.

And our bodies too.

Hence BMS coaching includes powerful elements to ensure that the coaching conversation do not just stay on the logical plane. It allows the mind to speak too

through intuition guided by meditation and visualization.

Elements from nature are included to assist you

to gain potent clarity and focus.

After achieving illuminating insights with your coaching and confirmation from your spirit, movement is brought in to

ground your intentions and insights

into your physical body.

After an empowering BMS coaching, you can then move forth

with power and wisdom

to manifest your intentions

into physical reality.

It’s time to live in body – mind – spirit alignment.

Let your alchemy begin.

 WHAT A SESSION CONSISTS OF –

  • In a salt lamp environment with crystals and pure essential oil diffuser
  • Safe space cleansed with sage beforehand
  • Fruit infused water as refreshment
  • Singing bowl and Tibetan bell initiation
  • Intuition card reading
  • Whole brain coaching with ICF Certified coach using art therapy and mindmap.
  • Chakra meditation with crystals
  • Affirmation with a crystal of your choice
  • Breathwork with mantra
  • Grounding with movement and visualization

 INVESTMENT

  • 2 hours Special rate $250 TILL 12th Mar (Usual $300)
  • For booking please email to me(at)joyleng(dot)com
  • Prepayment required to confirm booking.

Namaste.

With all my Shakti love,

Joy

P.S. ~ Get your free Step 1 of Let’s Step! Goal Setting Program and my latest kick ass updates here.​ ~

Namaste.
With all my Shakti love,

Joy

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AMAZON ALERT!

Check out my brand new book ‘From Zero to Shakti’
A woman’s search for rebirth and redemption.
Now available on Amazon Kindle!
Review on Amazon –
‘The author is very brave, disclosing her personal challenges and the solutions she created. I admire her unselfish sharing, and her courage in undertaking her personal quest.
She traveled a long distance to a special place, and even braved a fire walk–something difficult to imagine. She tells her story in an absorbing way. This book is charming.’

– Shearon B (Australia)
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

*** Take the first step to your GOALS here!

P.S. Why did I describe my life as a blank canvas? Check out my 10mins podcast interview at The Tao of Confidence. 

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‘Empowering heart-centered women since 2005’

“I met Joy and was immediately struck by her vibrant energy.

She is a compassionate person with a quick mind, and I found her coaching to be skillful and intuitive.

If you ever need coaching, I would recommend you see her: not only will she help sort you out, she will be your cheerleader every step of the way!”
– Rimi Yoshida

Check out coaching with Joy.
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  • Desire momentum and accountability to achieve your life goals.
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Book a FREE 20 minutes Skype session at me (at) joyleng.com for

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Warrior Goddess Introductory Session

You are whole.

You are powerful.

You are divine.

  • When you read these words do you feel the truth of them ringing in your bones?
  • Or do you feel the muffling weight of self-judgment and self-doubt, the deep-marrow fear of not being good enough, and the exhaustion of seeking your value outside of yourself?

~ If you don’t love and honor yourself with every fiber of your being,

~ If you could use more joyful play and simple presence in your life,

~ If you struggle with owning your power and passion, then

it is time for an inner revolution.

Join Joy, a certified warrior goddess facilitator, trained by Heather Ash Amara, to learn how to ignite your Warrior Goddess energy using the Warrior Goddess Training.

Joy with Heather Ash Amara in Mago Retreat, Sedona

~ You are ALREADY whole and perfect. ~

You only need to release the negative energy that is making you believe otherwise.

~ Joy in Warrior Goddess Facilitator training in 2016 – http://www.joyleng.com/shakti-fire-sof-25-warrior-goddess-training-heather-ash/

~ The date for the next Warrior Goddess Introduction Session here.

~ Join our Shakti on Fire Meetup Group here.

~ Download two free chapters here.

Energy Exchange – $10 (cover refreshment and material cost)

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‘Goddess energy is our creative flow; unconditional love, pleasure, passion, wisdom. When we claim our goddess energy, we live in joyful self-acceptance, self-respect, and listen to our innermost being.’

– Heather Ash Amara, author of Warrior Goddess Training

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Here’s to your soul elevation!

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​With all my Shakti love.
Namaste,
Joy
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“I met Joy and was immediately struck by her vibrant energy.

She is a compassionate person with a quick mind, and I found her coaching to be skillful and intuitive.

If you ever need coaching, I would recommend you see her: not only will she help sort you out, she will be your cheerleader every step of the way!”
– Rimi Yoshida

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Here’s to your soul elevation!

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Thanks for reading.​

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‘The author is very brave, disclosing her personal challenges and the solutions she created. I admire her unselfish sharing, and her courage in undertaking her personal quest.
She traveled a long distance to a special place, and even braved a fire walk–something difficult to imagine. She tells her story in an absorbing way. This book is charming.’

– Shearon B (Australia)
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*** How often do you say yes when you meant no? Or say no when you meant yes? Take the free Authentic U Quiz to find out.

P.S. Check out my 17mins podcast interview too at Love Is A Verb. 

Your Transformational Coach,

Joy Leng

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‘Empowering heart-centered women since 2005’

“I met Joy and was immediately struck by her vibrant energy.

She is a compassionate person with a quick mind, and I found her coaching to be skillful and intuitive.

If you ever need coaching, I would recommend you see her: not only will she help sort you out, she will be your cheerleader every step of the way!”
– Rimi Yoshida

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Shakti on Fire (SOF) 28 – What’s Your Story Morning Glory?

How would you rate yourself as a human being?

In the past, I would rate myself a negative 5.

Why? Oh boy, don’t even get me started. Pathetic from the beginning.

Decidedly abandon-worthy by mum at a tender age, grew up as a kid with scoliosis, never successful in friendships with female classmates in my primary school, achieved a nasty tomboy reputation by getting into fights with the boys.

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Hated school, hated home, hated myself, cannot decide which I hated more.

Probably the latter.

When I played soccer, I will always score my own goals and I will be the highest scorer. Nobody ever wanted me to be in their team. In my secondary school years, I stayed with my first boyfriend and ran away from home.

What was there to celebrate in life? Nothing.

I dragged my feet around, wondering why I was born and what’s the point of it all.

Growing up, I got into several utterly disastrous relationships. One was a married man, who kept his marriage a secret for months. I was stalked and threatened by the suffering wife. Another was a psychopath lawyer, who acted all loving and devoted to me, in front of others while scheming a loan letter to be made, secretly under my name.

Next came a man who seemed to be such a perfect match with me, but is secretly a sadist sending explicitly sexual texts and images to his ex and making adulterous moves to other women in the course of our relationship.

Life sucks big time.

But what if I can write the same life story authentically, still mine and it can look radically different.

Doubt so? So let’s give it a shot.

My mother had enough faith in me as an individual, even as a young child and she decided that I will thrive in life even without her support. I will be able to do so more than my younger sister. And she is so right. I did.

Because of the emotional challenges I faced growing up, being a child aware of my adoption, I became stronger, more resilient and determined an individual. I had too much pride to fail. And I also have a lot of empathy of others who are in pain.

As a newly adopted ‘only child’, I had no one to turn to, so I turned to my books for solace. I escaped into the literary fictional world of Jackson 5, Roald Dahl, Nancy Drew and the likes. It was a seductive world, where I spend more of my waking moments than in the real world.

That thoroughly exasperated my new parents. But I did not scare. I felt safe here. I got lost in another world, where I was not ‘unwanted’. Because of that, my love and my command of the English language became a deeply rooted vein in my life. And it had also helped propelled me in life.

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Because of my need to prove my worth to myself, to my family and to the world, I started one of the first pole-dancing studio in Singapore, SensUal Joy, in 2005. I also started the school in defiance, despite of the fact that I had moderate scoliosis. I wanted to go against the status quo.

Who is to say what I can or cannot do?

Deliciously scandalous, it was such an uphill task but I loved it. It was the first bravest thing I had ever done for myself. SensUal Joy helped to reclaim my sense of self. It taught me that

I was capable of so much more.

In a desperate, never-ending strive to justify my worth, I became obsessed with learning. I worked in companies, that promoted motivational learning, I grab anything that I could possibly lay my hands on to learn and to give me an edge. I grab every opportunity to go for free or subsided seminars. I was so ravenous for knowledge, so thirsty for acceptance.

In the process of it all, I became genuinely in love with learning and education. What was derived from

a sad person’s lack of self-esteem

has blossomed

into a beautiful tree of knowledge.

That has enabled me to be an accredited life coach today and a certified warrior goddess facilitator. It has also entrenched so deeply in me the value of education that I started a fund raising group, For Our Children, to raise money to build schools in third world countries.

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Who would have guessed?

Carrying this hidden sense of shame and worthlessness for the last thirty years, had crescendoed into a pilgrimage of the soul, to Sedona by myself, with the intention of rebirth. It resulted in an exciting solo trip, half across the world, ridden with a series of unfortunate incidents, including a serious health scare, only to come home, purified and reborn.

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The best part is that, it brought about the birth of my first book, From Zero to Shakti, now available on Amazon.

Thanks to my shame and my pain,

I have fulfilled my childhood dream of being an author.

Kind of kick ass isn’t it?

Having been cheated in so many different forms and shapes by men, I had tasted all the different textures and layers of betrayal, shame, pain, bitterness, tears, blood, and very dark nights of the soul.

But it only propelled me to keep rising like the relentless wave. Ever rising, ever moving. It had inspired my vision in life, the uprising of one million Shaktis-on-Fire. The empowerment of one million women who will pay it forward.

So there, I have told you

two different stories.

Same life. Same person. Me.

Which story is true?

Both are.

Which one empowers me?

Which perspective am I embracing in life?

That is a constant moment-by-moment choice.

Are you the victim or the victor?

Sometimes, they are one and the same.

And hey!

You get to choose!

What is your old story?

What is your new story?

Be the author of the right story.

Give yourself the gift of an empowering life story today.

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Here’s to your soul elevation!

~ Get your free Step 1 of Let’s Step! Goal Setting Program and my latest kick ass updates here.​ ~

Thanks for reading.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~


AMAZON ALERT!

Frm Zero to SHakti cover

Check out my brand new book ‘From Zero to Shakti’
A woman’s search for rebirth and redemption.
Now available on Amazon Kindle!
Review on Amazon –
‘The author is very brave, disclosing her personal challenges and the solutions she created. I admire her unselfish sharing, and her courage in undertaking her personal quest.
She traveled a long distance to a special place, and even braved a fire walk–something difficult to imagine. She tells her story in an absorbing way. This book is charming.’

– Shearon B (Australia)
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~


*** How often do you say yes when you meant no? Or say no when you meant yes? Take the free Authentic U Quiz to find out.

P.S. Check out my 17mins podcast interview too at Love Is A Verb. 

Your Transformational Coach,

Joy Leng

~~~~~~~

‘Empowering heart-centered women since 2005’

“I met Joy and was immediately struck by her vibrant energy.

She is a compassionate person with a quick mind, and I found her coaching to be skillful and intuitive.

If you ever need coaching, I would recommend you see her: not only will she help sort you out, she will be your cheerleader every step of the way!”
– Rimi Yoshida

Check out coaching with Joy.

 

~~~~~~~~


P.S. Have you downloaded your FREE

Ready to serve if you
  • Desire momentum and accountability to achieve your life goals.
  • Want to take advantage of DiSC personality profiling to understand your/your team’s strengths and to maximize productivity and harmony.
  • Are looking for an inspiring storyteller sharing truths from real life experience..

Book a FREE 20 minutes Skype session at me (at) joyleng.com for

  • Yourself or
  • For someone you feel who is in need of an empowerment coach.

10% of my net profit goes to support For Our Children (FOC).